I never said she’d ruin her life, Im just not really supportive of the idea, sorry? o.o im just not really into the idea but Im not judging lol, sorry if it came across weird, anyway… goodluck Ranah. 
I'm a LESBIAN girl who WANTS to marry a GAY man..>>yes!
kutakilu
#21
ramyahmed
#22
Why are you sorry? dont be, I understand where your coming from but unfortunately we have to take different measures to live a normal life. Good luck to ranah is right.
kutakilu
#23
yea I’m just done having people misunderstand me okay?^^ - yea people are different, newais I said what I have, baii.
Lion-Atom
#24
Hello Ranah, I’ve been suffering from the same issue for ages, but I’m gay not lesbian … or you can say I’m a non-gay homosexual (a gay who refuses to have a gay lifestyle) . The only solution that came up into my mind is to marry a lesbian girl, first to know someone who can understand my sufferings and second, to cover each others in the society … I’m egyptian too by the way… If you are still interested, drop me an email on lionatom@hotmail.com…
sassou_yosra
#25
i wish you all the luck because i think is a good idea in order to leave your family house and live your life
Delusions
#26
Please if you do find one toss him around we can share right ? haha 
they can marry 1,2,3,4 cant they lmao
Nader
#31
hey Ranah, I live in USA, suffering from the same problem, gay here, has my own house, but the whole family live closer to me, pushing me so hard to get married, email me at nhannausa@gmail.com. may be we can help each other out.lol
SadisBad
#32
Jeez i have been totally detached, If this looks like a short term possibility do so. Just try and get your career. Contact the USA guys if you can
Askim3was
#33
marriage with benefits wow am sure you will find a guy who will be willing to do this I guess for the same reasons your dong it
Linabkr
#34
i have the same exact problem with Ranah and i’m sure with most girls, being an iraqi muslim and a lesbian is so hard and our solution is to get married to a gay guy who has the same problem as us girls to be free and not take bullshit from the family, i hate to say it but i too am looking for a gay guy to mary, someone who’s open about it and who’s willing to risk it!! guys write to me if ur interested and girls HEELO THERE BEAUTIES
lcouple
#36
hi …we r lesbian couple…muslims and we r 18-24 … we r looking for tow gays to get married to…fake marriage we can be best friends and ofc no sexual contact… plz if anyone out there is interested contact us…we really need this as soon as possible…
emil : gayforlesbian@hotmail.com
skype: towlesbians
SadisBad
#40
I am impulsive by nature and I am needy. Sounds pathetic. I want to change but I cannot change. I want to complain about my discomfort because I want acceptance but at the same time I cannot be fully sure of my own sexuality. I am not willing to call myself bisexual because it does not help me accept myself. I feel different towards guys and girls.I wish to really know how it happened but I am afraid to be patient o know how it happened. I really wanted to change myself but after all the scientific theory I became aware of how prejudice people can be. Lately i started thinking of marriage because that oddly makes me feel better…I am n admitted it talways judgmental about myself because I think I am not that good, I am always worried of my sexual orientation and I cannot be proud internally. I do not wish to be in this porblem because it is just so hard to deal with …I know I am a coward in this case. This is my weak point because when people tell me that I am sick I feel motivated to do (which I dnt even know whether I will be good at it or not) I will do it but only Alah(swt) knows the result. I am always confused…ALWAYS confused…ALWAYS confused and I am afraid to meet the things some of you are not…I think low ofmyself when I see a proud gay men so confident in what he likes…I feel sad if I come out my family…and trust me SO MANY PEOPLE LOVES ME here that it makes me feel that I can never come out and even of i do with there motivation I may marry and ebd up being freaked out more. I dont know why but many gays report that some of them enf up liking sex with girls and I am like WHAT THE SHIT? Will I also end up liking it…I just dnt know which path to follow because I am just not confident and proud. I guess this is part of life…I wish to accept but then I just think if I am happy then Allah will not be happy…if I am sad then Allah will be happy but thats just unfair becuase I will be comparing to th the straight person beside me…I am trying…I am struggling and I have no one to listen to me…to be patient with me…this stone in my chest…people turning their back…thinking less of me added to the fact the I think less of myself…added to my confusion and low self esteem…that I cannot be so certain…
I have learned and changed…but i cannot change this part because everytime I try its just hurtful…I cannot keep it a secret but if I speak out loud I cannot be confident about it like I used to be before I even admitted to myself…I need help. I need someone who would help me…to be a better person…to be brave…because i certainly dnt know which to judge and keep myself away from…what is right for me and what I should do…i realized things soo early and so immaturely that i am unable to deal with thing properly…not even my own family understand…And why should theygo through the trouble? After all almost all scholars believe its a sin and all m life i belived it to be sin and now suddenly I am hearing its not a sin or it shouldnt be…odds are in my favor and oddly i cannot accept it…I guess in the end I want to say i didnt want to be gay but no matter how many times I imagine things with girls me liking guys never change…I am always reminded of it…I am always scared and angry…i want to bring up this explanation so many times…i want to end my bad feelings…but I cant. People tell me I am nice but am I really? I guess not…I dnt what to do.I wish to marry just be have some attention from a girl bcs she would listen and help me psychologically…I am so troubled even though I dont appear to be.