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i dont know who i am exactly

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hi everyone i cant say im a lesbian or even a bisexual all i know for now is that i like both guys and girls i have had sexual experiences with men but not with girls... the only experienece i had with a girl was when i was about 10 years old with my cousin ... i've always admired women and find them very interesting but i havnt feagured out what i want exactly...
i hope that i can find some help to figure it out.

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  • 25-34_f_w_h3_f2
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    Hi saly, do you think about having a sexual experience with a woman? And if so do you think it will be just experimental/sexual or with true feelings involved? It seems to me that you might be bisexual. It's very normal to identify as a bisexual without having had sex with or a relationship with a woman. As long as it's always an "open option" that means you're open to having it and that's what being bisexual is.

    It's also very normal not to know exactly what you want, just be open to what comes your way and you will find that person, a lot of people who limit their experiences by gender or too many high expectations end up not finding the person they are really looking for.

    • 17-24_f_w_h2_f4
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      thnx a lot reem just like u said i'll just try to be open to what comes my way but u know it's hard when ur already confused and the society doesnt help it makes force ur self to ignore the signs even when they're there but thnx a lot again that was very helpful

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  • 17-24_f_f_h1_f3
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    It's often confusing when you begin questioning your sexuality. Think of it this way: your sexual orientation is not who you force yourself to be with, but the people you subconsciously check out when you're not thinking about it
    i was in the same situation that u you're right now , i always knew that I'm attracted to girls but sometimes i have emotions to guys and it was confusing , the only thing to do is to more experiment both girls and guys , to see what u feel about it , if you're a lesbian you'll find out that you're uncomfortable
    with boys , and of course you're more relaxed with girls , if you're bisexual u will be attracted to both sex but in different percentage

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  • 17-24_f_b_h1_f2
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    i agree with all the above comments. dont worry too much about definitions and fitting in. just take it day by day and see where your feelings take you.

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  • 17-24_f_w_h2_f4
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    thank u i'll try

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