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I think that the whole bisexual thing is a way of saying you're a sex addict. I believe that every bisexual Guy or girl will never end up marrying someone of their same sex, I don't like labels but I you love girls you only love girls~! and vise verse.

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  • 17-24_f_f_h3_f3
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    Holy f*** ! LOL I was just telling pi-chan in private messages now the EXACT SAME THING about "bisexuals" haha, but btw there are some true bisexuals but trust me they're extremely rare and not so horny like those "bisexual" 24/7 wanna stick it somewhere kinda people. And the new trend now is when every kid is afraid to face reality of their sexual orientation (of being gay) they go with "Bi!" ugh this is so unfair for the very rare true Bi's xD

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  • I agree with that but i don't like to judge people so do what ever you want and be who you are

    • 17-24_f_w_h1_f1
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      I know im not judging anyone im just saying that i dont believe than someone can actually like boys and girls cause being gay is not a choice but being bisexual is kind of a sex addiction to me , but anyways i have bi friends no bestfriends and i dont hate on them and i totally accept them for who they are as long as it has nth to do with me , i respect your point of view sorry if my topic is ofending anyone it is LGBT after all

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    • 51-65_m_f_h1_f4
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      Alla,,,,,,THANKS WE ALL R SAME IN MANY PROBLEMS IN OUR SOCIETY.

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  • 17-24_m_b_h2_f4
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    im sorry, but i dont understand y r we bitter when we talk abt bis?? it's like we hold a grudge against them, they have it harder than us, especially here in the middle east, u think u were confused when u found out u liked ur same sex, imagine what's been happening to them, they hit puberty, and puberty in egypt means that every litte creature in society will try to "hornify" u, and they find themselves attracted to everything, now adding the raging new-found desire for intimacy and that the society encourages them to be predators, we come up with what u call here sex addicts! i know 4 bisexuals, they r the most beautiful ppl i know, one of them is my idol actually, she's THE BEST
    and abt marriage, that takes us back to the society thing, they want him and they want her, now we r telling him to go for the same-sex cuz we would approve that, and then the family and all that halabaloo r forcing them on the opposite sex, and we forget that neither us nor the society has anything to do when it comes to an individual choosing his/her own partner, we simply have no right butting in!
    and one last thing we need to remember it's the "LGBT", not the "LG & friends", bisexuality isnt a sub-specie to homosexuality, it's a separate sexuality group, they have their own needs and they're the only ones responsible for getting them, what i'm asking u to do is to stop treating them like the phobes r treating us, and like i told Delusions, we need to stop thinking abt who they sleep with and start acknowledging them as human beings, the same thing we ask our societies to do with us!

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  • I feel like this is really unfair, bisexuality is just as legitimate as any other sexuality, and don't you think it's strange how we in the gay and lesbian community are spreading hate and marginalizing a sexual minority when that's exactly what we're here to escape from?

    Bisexuals always have to deal with this kind of crap from our community, and frankly whether you believe in the validity of their sexuality or not, it's not really our place to have an opinion about it, let alone to judge them and exclude them because of it. We know better than most about how damaging words can be, and how frustrating it is to deal with people who are not in your situation, don't fully understand it, and yet feel the need to force their judgement onto you and voice their harmful, hateful opinions, regardless. We need to be more self-aware and realize that, our words and actions have an affect.

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  • 17-24_m_b_h4_f1
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    I've always kinda thought of it the same way, I know there are true bi people but they're few compared to everyone who calls themselves bi, it's easier for someone who's horny enough and feels like f***ing everything that walks to call themselves bisexual than actually a sex addict, even in a committed relation with a bi, instead of worrying only about half the world tempting them away (I mean one gender), you'll find yourself doing double the work being jealous that they might like any other person as well of both genders, for myself I usually try and go for gay guys over bi ones.

    • That's the thing, you cannot possibly know that every bisexual person's intention is the same, and that's where generalizations become harmful. In a society like ours, or any society really since the whole world runs on the basis of heteronormativity, when we begin to experience feelings that don't match what is expected of us, it can get to be very confusing and scary. As I'm sure most of us here know. So can you imagine someone who is struggling with coming to grips with their sexuality, finally getting a breath of relief in realizing they best fit the term "bisexual" and that is what they're most comfortable identifying as, to come to a forum like this and have to see members of the community they thought they had a place in, ridiculing them and invalidating their identity?

      Secondly, you fall in love with a person, not their sexuality. If the PERSON you're dating, is attracted to both genders and you feel threatened by that, then maybe that isn't the right relationship for you. If the PERSON you're dating, can't seem to control their sexual urges and wants to "f*** everything that walks" and that's not okay with you, then maybe you should look for someone more compatible with your needs. The point is, people are different, and whatever your opinion there WILL be someone out there who agrees with you entirely, and whom you can be with in harmony. So instead of bringing people down and spreading hate about them because we don't agree with their lifestyle, how about we try to live and let live?

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    • 17-24_m_b_h4_f1
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      I sense that I upset you with my comment and I never intended that so firstly i apologize for it.

      Secondly for sure i wasn't pointing that to everyone who's bi I was just thinking of every guy who just wanted something with me before and I've been trying to have a sense of control lately . and I know you fall in love with a person not their sexuality, as my first and only love so far was for a bi person and he only started seeing himself as gay after around a year and a half of us being committed.

      this is a great place for us all, I have no hate towards anyone and I'm sure Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans we're all in the same pit for the meantime and I hope it gets better for all of us in the future

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    • No harm, no foul. I just think it's important, that as a community, we're careful not to exclude anyone who finds their only comfort and safety among us

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  • 51-65_m_f_h1_f4
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    GRATING TO EVERYONE IN OUR COMMUNITY(GAY-LESBIAN-BI-SEXUAL).........WE ALL IN SAME PROBLEM.....WE ALL MEET SAME PROBLEM WITH OTHERS PEOPLE AGILEST US.......SHOULD EVERYONE IN OUR COMMUNITY NICE WITH OTHERS....WE ALL R FRIENDS.........I LOVE U ALL SO MUCH.........I FELL THAT I AM IN MY HOME WITH U ALL......FELL FREE TO TALK ABOUT WHAT I FEEL.....WHAT I LOVE...WHAT I NEED......I MISS LOVE AND SEX SO MUCH.......BUT.....WHEN I COME HER I FEEL FULL HAPPINESS WITH U ALL

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  • 17-24_f_w_h1_f2
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    U just said what on my mind
    I don't have probs with bisexual people but I don't feel comfortable being in relationship with a bisexual woman. I'll always be in fear of 'her' leaving me for a man.

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  • 17-24_f_w_h1_f1
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    I am sorry for upsetting some of you or whatever but that's just my point of view and its not the truth about every bisexual in the world.

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  • 25-34_f_w_h2_f1
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    I am sorry abut i don't think its true.

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f4
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    You are discriminated against by straight individuals for your sexuality and so you decide to discriminate against others for their sexuality???
    I'm a proud lesbian and not bisexual by the way but it really is unfair to state that. Yes, like any community, there are the true bisexuals who are just attracted to both sexes and there are the ones that are just having fun until they find someone their parents would approve of. I'm 100% with you that it happens but I'm 100% against discriminating against all bisexuals and this massive overgeneralizing.
    In other words, a lesbian or gay or even a straight individual is equally as likely to cheat and be dishonest.
    "Sexuality is fluid." ever heard that term???
    Yes, people like you and I have our sexuality be so clear that we are only attracted to girls, for others, it's not as clear.

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  • 51-65_m_f_h1_f4
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    GUCian
    THANKS FOR YOUR WORDS....I AM BI-MALE.........I AGREE WITH YOUR LOVELY WORDS....I HAVE ALL RIGHT TO LOVE BOTH M-F..........

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    This is lgbt the b stands for bisexuals its not fair to judge

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  • 17-24_m_b_h3_f3
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    When u know ur bi...ur bi....whatever suits u

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f2
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    Just because you've had a bad experience with a bi before doesn't make ALL bisexuals fake and just looking for sex I hate to identify myself under a specific label but I can have feelings for a girl just as much as for a boy and by the way I'm demi sexual as well so please stop judging a whole community please. there are the bad and the good everywhere..

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    I don't think it is fair to judge them bisexuals. I don't like being involved with bisexual girls, in fear that they will leave whenever they please and replace me with a man. But, come on! Let's not judge. After all, B stands for Bisexual (LGBT) ..

    Let's refrain from using words that might be discriminating/offending other members, can we?

    Anon, - Lesbian

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  • 35-50_f_w_h1_f3
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    Thank you for posting, we want to encourage everyone to create a safe space for voicing our opinions and feelings about issues that affect us all as LGBT people from the Middle East. With that in mind, we at Ahwaa request that these discussions refrain from containing content that puts down any particular LGBT identity because we are all members of this community together. Our aim is to make all members of our LGBT community--including Bi people--feel welcomed, supported, and unashamed of their identities, which is crucial since so many of us face such a difficult time in our societies and families. Thank you again for sharing your thoughts and we hope you'll continue to contribute your opinions to these important conversations in a way that supports all community members.

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      Amen!

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  • 17-24_f_w_h1_f3
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    i don't how can someone who feels how its like to be discriminated because of their sexuality does the same thing to another. its just so sad. we all need love and eachother.
    i find this very annoying. yout ran to the judgement that anyone bi would always choose the easier and marry a boy and that they are just horny and not even real skipping the fact that they find hard time adapting to their sexuality as well and that a lot of the lesbians called themselves bis at the beginning...

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  • 17-24_m_w_h3_f4
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    This entire post is a good window into how some of you think, so thanks.

    • 25-34_m_w_h1_f4
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      keyword here being "some," most of us here are not like that at all, and these views dont represent us.

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    • 17-24_m_w_h3_f4
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      Good.
      Calling a sexual orientation "shit" is like calling a specific group of people something offensive, because only a fraction of them did something bad..
      What do they call that these days?

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    • 25-34_m_w_h1_f4
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      hmm probably called racists and bigots. and yes i totally agree. no one deserves to be marginalized, mocked or discriminated against because of their identity or sexual orientation, thats what brought us all here in the first place, so its ironic a gay person would make such a claim.

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    • 17-24_m_w_h3_f4
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      "Two Things Are Infinite: the Universe and Human Stupidity"

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  • 17-24_f_w_h2_f1
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    You know, this is exactly what homophobes think about gay and lesbians. That they are straight but just really horny. They don't understand what it means to be a homosexual - just like you don't understand what it's like to be bisexual. Your opinion had a chance of being respected if you had admitted that you didn't understand bisexuality and asked for the community here to understand them better, but saying that it's "shit" is so ignorant it hurts.

    I believe sexuality is a spectrum. Either you remain on one particular part of the spectrum or you move along it is defined by how you feel and what makes you comfortable. In other words, don't be surprised if you find yourself emotionally attracted to the opposite sex, enough to look over the physical aspect. You can still identity as a homosexual but you will be in love with a member of the opposite sex. Doesn't mean you're just "horny" or whatever or that you're not a "real homosexual" or a "fake bisexual". It simply means that there are no definite labels.

    I do hope that those who are biphobic/transphobic etc. will take the time to understand different sexualities, the initiative to educate themselves on the topic and accept that opinions do not become facts simply because you say so.

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  • 17-24_f_w_h1_f4
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    Our sexuality is as real as anyone else's. We are not sex addicts (I, as a bisexual, never had sex and I am not a very sexual person actually) We are just attracted to both sexes that is all. And we are as serious about relationships as anyone else, same-sex or not. I would like a wife just as much (okay maybe a little bit more) as I would a husband. Not because you are monosexual you get to assume everyone else is, too because that's exactly how homophobes think.
    Please do read about bisexuality and pansexuality as well while you're at it.
    And you know who's really shit? Cheaters and a**holes! Not bisexuals. Please do not blame a whole sect of sexual orientation for the stupid people in it because stupid people are in every orientation and race and religion and everything.
    It's like straight people who say gays are sex-obsessed because some of us actually are
    Or like saying Muslims are terrorists because some actually are
    Or like saying all trans women are as rude as Caitlyn Jenner
    Please do reconsider your point of view by reading or talking to actual bisexuals (you can talk to me) if you have any questions.
    Hatred is a result of misunderstanding.

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  • 25-34_f_w_h2_f1
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    i am sorry but i don't think its true, and i also think its discrimination, the same way we are discriminated again by str8 ppl claiming we are sex addicts.

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f4
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    But this stereotype here of bisexuals being infidel and horny is absurdly bi-phobic.

    Bisexuals CAN commit in relationships with their own gender and different genders. And some bisexuals cheat, but not because of their bisexuality, but for a plethora of different reasons.

    Fuck this bi-phobic shit.

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  • the cheater is cheating because s\he is a cheater , not because s\he is a bi\pansexual ..

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