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Where can a Girl find someone to relate to? I am a lesbian in Egypt And I think, actually I know i will be forever Alone.

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I Live in Egypt and Our community is a pain in my ass, I can never come out to my parents, or friend cause I'm afraid they would judge, I never had a Girl friend and I Really want To know That I'm not the only one like that, I want someone to relate to, someone to talk to who's like me. .

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  • I'm lesbian too and i'm from egypt and i can feel your pain so if you wanna talk i'm here

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f4
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    Egyptian lesbian here too, and I know exactly what you mean. The LGBT society here is a pain and I looked all over facebook groups, I found one that was decent but only met very few people that I actually like. Most lesbian groups are full of guys, whores that would fuck anything that walks and couples looking for a threesome. It's very tiresome and just like you I'm starting to think I should just give up because it's not just sexual for me, I'm just a girl that is capable of falling in love with another girl.

    • Totally agree with that

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    • 17-24_f_w_h1_f1
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      Problem is even when we are talking here we are not 100% sure that there is no guy faking an account and afraid to like meet someone from internet cause they might be a bunch of haters its really frustrating I feel like giving up too

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    • 17-24_f_b_h1_f4
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      omg.. i thought that i was paranoid and insecure for thinking that even if i make friends in here it will be just on the internet and i won't trust them to go meet up with them in person...what we have to do that we are not being catfished :S

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    • 17-24_f_b_h1_f4
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      what we have to do to know that we are not being catfished *

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  • 17-24_f_b_h1_f2
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    sorry you all experience that. i can tell you from experience that true love will come and go and come and go again until you find the right one. they will all be great learning experiences for you. not everyone is looking for just sex, thousands or millions of women here are looking for exactly what you are. probably if youre coming across sex-crazed lesbians then you might be looking in the wrong places. people who usually put themselves out there on places like facebook, theyre looking for sex only or very specific things and not a real relationship.

    • 35-50_f_w_h3_f2
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      This is very optimistic! Do you actually live in the Middle East? I don't mean to be harsh at all.... I'm just saying that it's IMPOSSIBLE for gay people who have a decent job, well respected in society a life style that reflects a believe and faith in God, it's impossible to find anything but Facebook groups and social networks to search for love... And for sure, you don't find love on line... That's at least my own experience .. To find love you have to come out .. And if you come out, you lose everything you have worked for all your life... And the chances are that you will be with a group of people who are totally different than your value system, just to have an access to gay community (who might not be there searching for love).... the chances are you won't find love!!

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  • 25-34_m_w_h1_f4
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    i always said i will be "forever alone" when i was younger. i have had 3 boyfriends since then. no one is really "forever" alone unless they want to be.

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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    am from Egypt too am from Giza exactly i feel ur pain soo much every girl i know her she's just looking for sex & i want real love & i think like u that i'll be forever aloone & without love hope to find my true love soon

    • don't lose faith buddy love will find you anyway

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      hey how r u im sara living and working now at sharm el sheik but i used to live in liverpool as my mum is an english woman but my father was from egypt so i decided to live and work at sharm el sheik for a while im working as a stylist for a magazine called mix magazine so if u interested we can keep on contact my skype is

      sara.thomson11
      im serious

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    • 35-50_f_w_h3_f2
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      We all hope so.... Wish you all the best

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    • 51-65_m_f_h1_f4
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      LOVE WILL COME IF U R LUCKY...........SEX IS OK BUT AFTER LOVE..........SOMETIME LOVE COME AFTER SEX ...........CRAZY SYSTEM....NO ONE SAME OTHER.......IT IS OUR BIG PROBLEMS WE CAN NOT FIND LOVE BECAUSE WE R SO ROMANTIC........THE ONLY THING I CAN TELL U ALL.............IF ANY ONE (GAY--LESBIAN)LOOKING TO LOVE U HAVE TO WAIT-WAIT.........LOVE WILL COME

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  • here in egypt nobody will accept ur reality, u gotta be who they want u to be n on the internet its hard to find a real girl who is actually a real lesbian.. most of them are guys or whores.. kinda sad really welcome to the club -__-

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  • Ugh so much negativity..
    but let me ask you this, have you even tried to come out to anyone or be true self in order for people to accept it ? Probably not! Yet you only know to complain so yes keep feeling bad for yourself this will change things to the better indeed!

    • 17-24_f_w_h3_f4
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      That was a little bit harsh, but well said (Y)

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    • 17-24_f_w_h1_f1
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      hey why the hate !!
      Actually some of my friends do know that im a lesbian some of my girl and guy friends but what does that have to do with anything ? its not like im going to ask someone i like randomly if she's into me, we're in fucking egypt

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  • 17-24_f_w_h1_f3
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    what is it with all ur negativity ! .. we all had our secret life .
    it's the one thing left for us now .

    we can do something .. we ALL can create groups on fb to manage chats and meeting

    WE CAN CHANE THAT , EVEN IF SECRETLY ..

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      I dont care if its Secretary or not all I care about is being safe I dont want some fake people men or whores faking to be lesbians

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  • Heyy, im from egypt too but im not born there and never have I lived there. But if u wanna talk tht wud be great ! i honestly think i'll be forever alone too lol so it wud be great to meet a couple of girls who think the same way !

    Add me on skype for a little chat or if u want to get to know me. I speak arabic but im not so fluent but thts ok ryt? I'm Ellie btw.

    Talk soon ! xox

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  • 25-34_f_w_h3_f2
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    A lot of my best friends who said they will be forever alone are now in longterm relationships so it's just a matter of finding the right time and person to be with. These things don't happen overnight! be positive and hopeful and focus on yourself. The more you focus on yourself, your career, your studies, your wellbeing, your professional and personal growth, the more you will be at liberty to find the best love there is. Happiness starts with you

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  • Girls don't be hard on yourself , it's not easy to find your soul mate but you will find , my best friend almost give up until she met her lover now they are lovers and very hope , never give up ...
    never say never

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  • 25-34_f_w_h1_f4
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    You know what, don't look for a girlfriend or for someone to be with, try to surround yourself first with decent friends that you can talk to, eventually you'll meet your someone. And seriously, don't try to get involved in any fuckin' lesbian drama cuz it never ends !

    Relax girl, life is not worth the pain ! If you need to talk just send me a message

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  • I dont think I would ever need a relationship anymore. I really wanted that at the begining but now, i dont want a relationship with anyone and it isnt bothering me. I'm fine how i am i guess, i just want to talk to more online people just so i can have a little break from the people i see everyday.

    Decent friends arent ppl u can find here.

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  • 17-24_f_f_h3_f3
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    eh, i know where you're coming from, for really long time now and i'm not looking at all, i'm just happy to be left alone however im always "found" even tho im not openly out seems just like "gaydar" is real and i get detected easily or maybe things i say that gives me away i never complained about how society here is with homosexuals (frankly it has improved a lot lately anyways) i find it much more peaceful to be left alone yet not hide who i really am just being left alone. with due all respect to everyone but i dont know why you're in a desperate need of a "relationship" who needs a headache anyways ?

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  • You're not alone, you have no idea how many LGBT people around you. i thought i was the only Lesbian in my country until i met someone. so believe me when i tell you that you wont be alone. just believe in it, believe you will have someone to love & dont ever let anyone get under your skin.

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  • 35-50_f_w_h3_f2
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    Myra – I created an account here just to reply to your message and let you know how much I feel the pain you are talking about.. It’s exactly describing my case, if it makes you feel better that you are not alone in this.. you know what’s more painful than this? Is to fall in love for someone and you know in your heart that you can NEVER be together!!!!! And even worse.. Is to know that there’s no chance for you to find love… This is how painful it’s… It’s my destiny.. and I’m taking it bravely

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  • 51-65_m_f_h1_f4
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    OHHHHHHHHHHHHH SWEATY FALCONFREE.....U R SUPER ROMANTIC KINDNESS.......I HOPE GOD HELP U IN YOUR PROBLEM

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    There are actually many lesbians in Egypt. They're just too scared to come out. Specially in a country like that.

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  • 17-24_f_w_h1_f1
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    lol tho im not searching for a relationship right now but i do need some people to relate to you know !
    And i wish i had a gaydarr ugh lol

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  • 35-50_f_w_h3_f2
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    Hello there

    i can relate to what u r talking about,living in Egypt and not being able to find like minded people with whom we can share everything without fear of being judged by anything we r gonna say .im here if u wanna talk ,u r not alone girl

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  • 35-50_f_w_h3_f2
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    I think lots of us are there in every Arab country but the majority, including myself, can't take the chances and come out because we will be jeopardizing EVERYTHING; reputation, career, friends and maybe family too..... That's why we keep silent... On the other hand, we are losing each others.... We live in loneliness
    and emotional pain... Was just thinking about it this morning and I couldn't help my tears

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  • 25-34_f_w_h2_f3
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    Hey Alla, i'm all ears. I wonder where you live?

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    Hey guysss I'm new here how is everyone since we are talking about Egypt i'm Moving to Egypt next year for college and some of what u guys said scared me will i ever find people who r like me there or will i ever find someone to love ?

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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    I actually came out to 5 of my best friends and they support me They even supported my ex long distance girlfriend. Don't really lose hope because if they really are your friends or if they truly loves you, they will accept you. Yeah the society here is a piece of shit considering the mindness, but I do believe in fate and that if something is really meant to happen for you, it will Gosh...Im so lonely ranting like this lol

    • 17-24_m_b_h3_f3
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      #foreveralone ;P

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    • Guys ive been following this thread since like forever..and im in egypt nw fr the summer if anyone wants to txt or call just send me a reply and ill give u my number. Heres my bbpin fr anyone who needs it 75aa8157

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      IAM NEW here actually i got surprised that there is others like me iam married and 34 years old painful life painful struggle although the scene from outside, gives u another signs happy wife happy life happy kids,, but actually deep inside am alone very lonely keeping this secret inside, loneliness would eat u all... take all ur spirit desire in life... i hope that u would support me.....please be there for me i need a judgement free zone to live in

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