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i don't know if i'm bi or lesbian !!

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hi i'm new here but i like the idea of ahwaa so much.. i dunno if i'm bi or lesbian but i've watched all lesbian movies .. maybe i say i'm bi for being afraid to admit i'm a lesbian coz of the society as i'm from egypt .. i can't say it out loud here although i cant express myself or even tell a girl that i like her & i cant find girls like me.. i thought i was alone .. i need to talk with girls like me who have the same problem but i dunno how maybe i can find an answer here & i hope t get to know good people here, thank u .

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    All your words are referring to a SHE so I'd go ahead and assume you're a lesbian in either denial or you just haven't had the chance to express who you really are yet which is making you bit confused. But usually true bisexuals (not bi wannabes) totally fall for both genders almost equally so if thats not the case with you then you're gay. Good luck either way!

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    maybe u're right delusions .. i think i'm afraid to admit it that i'm lesbian

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  • U came to the right place

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    thank u maya & i'm happy for that

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    me too i've the same proplem & idk what can i do am afrid even said to my mum that am lesbo or bi she didn't understand me

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    Bonjour,

    J'ai lu ton message et ca ma étonné, parce que vous qualifiez l'homo probleme alors que c'est faux, etre homo ou lesbienne n'a jamais été un problème, c'est une orientation sexuelle sauf que les arabes disent qu'il s'agit d'une relation ANORMALE, mais le monde commence à prendre l'habitude d'avoir des homo partout

    Concernant tes parents, on est pas obligé de leurs expliquer qu'on est homo du moment que cela reste touours un tabeau chez les arabes?

    Personne ne poura te dire di tu es BI ou LEZ, c'est à toi de le découvrir et de savoir ce que tu veux mais je pense que etre BI "a mon avis" explique plutot ton orientation sexuelle surtout mais etre LEZ ca comprend le sex et l'amour que tu peux avoir envers une fille

    MErci

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    Who cares! Love is love ^^ If you're not sure yet, why put your self into a category!. just love who you want to love for now, and don't worry or over think it

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  • i think its easy to know if you are bi or lesbienne for me i think you have to have sex with a girl if you like it so your a lesbienne than do it with a male if you like it so your bi if you dont guuuuurl your a pure diva lesbienne lol. sex helps a lot to know your sexualllity

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      OK BUT THERE IS PROBLEM.........THERE MUCH DIFFERENT FOR SEX BETWEEN 2 LESBIAN GIRLS OR MAN AND WOMAN..........SO U BETTER START HAVING SEX WITH ANOTHER LESBIAN FIRST NOT START WITH MAN.

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  • I had the same problem but then i decided not to label it. Fall in love with a person's soul not their gender. and when you meet the right person you will be sure about it, whether that person is a He or a She

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  • just one thing ive learned , DONT LABEL yourself ! love the person not the sexe ! if someone makes you feel good , makes you happy , makes your life better and stayed no matter what ! he:she s the one

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    You dont need to find an answer NOW. Give yourself time and things will be clearer with time

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  • i can tell you that i stopped watching any non lesbian movies and just hated the idea of a man and women falling in love and things like that.
    and that i hate thr idea of getting married as i live in egypt too so i know thr struggle.
    but u will just know if you women and men or just women .
    it will be hard if you are a lesbian that’s for sure because there is nobody you can with “face to face” .

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    me 2, I have the same problem of mira. Me, I find myself liking and thinking about GIRLS in a sexual way but boys, I can like them but not so far like girls. I am lesbian then ! right?

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