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it's hard being femenine lesbian

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I know it's hard for all of us homosexuals but i think no one really realize how hard time femenine lesbian as my self go through Guys hitting on me all the time even im with my date and i'm flattered really but it gets annoying and i cant do anything about it And if cours the shitty reactions " oh you are too beautiful to be lesbian" .. "you are lesbian cause you never had piece of my heaven" and "so this is your girlfriend kiss her to prove it (WTF) and it's hard cause Even in LGBT community they keep doubting my sexuality they go like "you are having a ride in lesbian land " "your boyfriend cheated on you so now you want to go wild "

Gay ppls are beautiful all of us in every single way the have to realize that so thnx for readding this i know its not as hard as most of you are dealing withh but i wanted to share this !! Peace .

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f2
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    I hear this a lot from femme girls. The overly femme problem of just not looking lesbian enough? Sounds almost too ridiculous but that's what stereotypes do. A way around this is to be a bit generally more aggressive or assertive when approaching others perhaps. Once people know that you're into women, they'll definitely back off and stop assuming too - in the gay community especially.

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  • 17-24_f_w_h2_f1
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    It's very common for femme lesbians to go through this. Besides the gay factor, that kind of behaviour is just rude and you need to deal with it like you would disrespect in general. Ignore where you can, because it just isn't worth it and be firm when you have to respond. Orrr you could walk around with this and hand it out when necessary: http://i.imgur.com/BdVFFsS.jpg

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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    they are stupid, don't listen to them ._.

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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    i totally agree with you

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f4
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    Same thing except for the comments from the guys because most people don't know that am a lesbian but the thing is that they are so shallow I mean how can anyone one judge others like that also when someone says who's the man in the relationship, I just wanr them to think for once cause the whole point of being a lesbian is that we don't like guys that way :@

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  • you're not alone
    plus , i read from the comments that you still having hard time believing your sexuality .. then , don't tell ppl around you about your sexuality so they don't put you in a harder time with their comments and attitudes .. and if you needed someone to talk to we're all here for you

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