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Lesbian looking for MOC to a gay guy

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hello people am 23 yo lesbian I live in Dubai ,,, am searching for a cover up marriage to a gay guy and start a family ... I cant come out of the closet and hurt my family :( and they are forcing me to get married ,,,PS am good looking :P .

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  • 25-34_m_w_h1_f4
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    do you think this ever works to be honest i dont know of any successful cases of this ppl always try but it doesnt work. is this the only way out?

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  • I think you have a better shot traveling than living a lie the rest of your life. That's just my opinion though, hope your plan goes as you wish ;)

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      i agree with this, because if the lie gets exposed your family will not only be hurt they will feel betrayed and thats much worse

      my fam is also hurt im not married yet but id never go as far as to marry someone else on paper just to cover it up, its going to cause more pressure/problems and they will be less hurt if they just found out im gay and not that i had a sham marriage

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    • And you will also live a double life, a life when your parents visit you, you will have to show love to your husband and be a 'typical' housewife, and your husband as well will be under pressure, not to mention when people start wondering why aren't you pregnant yet. I don't want to be a hopes-crusher but this is merely an opinion, you're free to do whatever you want to do, it's you're life and only God knows the hardships you're going through.

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    • 25-34_m_w_h4_f4
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      I agree with InTheCloset, it's a tough commitment to make. You will basically have to commit to lying to your family and everyone around you all the time about your marriage. Think about it really hard before you go through with something like this, and weigh all the pros and cons of such a decision. Whatever you decide, I wish you the best of luck! :)

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      its better than anything else in this place ... couple of weeks ago my girlfriend's mum found out about us and we have been going through *** ... her mum made a huge drama out of it and called my mum and everything is ruined .. now I cant see her ,,, talk to her or even know anything ....although she admitted everything to her mum but she still believes that her daughter is sick and I am the reason she is this way .... we have no idea what to do and I need help before I go insane...ps they have been threating me a lot .. we have been together for 3 years and its not easy at all to forget or move on ...

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  • Hey, are you still searching? If so please Email me back: moc.khaled@hotmail.com

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