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sometimes I just ignore my sexual desires, and try to do something else but it doesn't help anyway. I don't know what Islam says exactly about homosexuality, but I know it's like 100% forbidden ! So seriously I don't wanna burn in hell ! I'm not able to tell my parents the truth cause i'm afraid of losing them, my friends already know and thankfully they've been always there for me.

I'm afraid of God and I bet you are too ! I don't know how this whole thing gonna end up ?! but I need to know, are we going to hell because of our homosexuality ?

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  • Are we going to hell for only being homosexuals ?
    the answer is No.
    And you bet wrong, i'm (and many others) not afraid of God as i dont kill people, rape them, steal their money or burn their houses :P do you really think God is that unfair to throw someone in hell for liking the same sex, hellooo it was God that created them that way after all why do you keep forgetting that ? God loves everyone especially those that don't harm others and your sexuality does not harm anyone :)

    Check this topic out too it may help
    http://www.ahwaa.org/topics/661

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  • 17-24_m_w_h4_f1
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    i think god who created us like that he know that we are homosexual as he know every thing about his creatures as he is the creator and he can make us straight but i think we should try to be straight or leave it to him to help us !

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  • 17-24_m_w_h4_f1
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    i think god who created us like that he know that we are homosexual as he know every thing about his creatures as he is the creator and he can make us straight but i think we should try to be straight or leave it to him to help us !

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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    yeah i'm sure that God created us like this and he know what his doing but KJ you're saying that we should change ?! it's impossible I tried, it didn't work ! and I still trying, i'm going out with a boy i'm trying to love him like he loves me but I just can't ! i guess i'm wasting my time like this so his time :\

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  • 17-24_m_w_h4_f1
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    your right u know that am bi. so i cant stop my attraction to men and in same time i cant be complete gay as i attracted to woman

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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    Exactly ! but I wanna know what our religion says about homosexuality ?

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  • 17-24_m_w_h4_f1
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    why it will make a lot f change to u ?

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  • 17-24_m_w_h4_f1
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    [وَاللَّذَانَ يَأْتِيَـنِهَا مِنكُمْ فَـَاذُوهُمَا]
    (And the two persons among you who commit illegal sexual intercourse, punish them both.) Ibn `Abbas and Sa`id bin Jubayr said that this punishment includes cursing, shaming them and beating them with sandals. This was the ruling until Allah abrogated it with flogging or stoning, as we stated. Mujahid said, "It was revealed about the case of two men who do it. As if he was referring to the actions of the people of Lut, and Allah knows best. The collectors of Sunan recorded that Ibn `Abbas said that the Messenger of Allah said,
    «مَنْ رَأَيْتُمُوهُ يَعْمَلُ عَمَلَ قَوْمِ لُوطٍ، فَاقْتُلُوا الْفَاعِلَ وَالْمَفْعُولَ بِه»
    (Whoever you catch committing the act of the people of Lut (homosexuality), then kill both parties to the act.)

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  • 17-24_m_w_h4_f1
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    The story of Lot (لوط, Lūṭ) from the Hebrew Bible, is also to be found in the Qur'an, albeit retold with a few differences. Amongst other things, the Qur'anic rendition links the destruction of Sodom specifically to the homosexual activities of its inhabitants. This is one of the many stories from the Qur'an which openly denies science and history, and by doing so, it proves the author of those verses was ignorant of reality and thus proves the verses were not divinely revealed. Take for instance, the Qur'an's claim that the People of Lot were the first to experience homosexuality. This is purely a myth. Homosexuality has been recorded in ancient cultures far before the time of Lot and Abraham (1948–2123 BC). For example the ancient Egyptians who existed 6000 years BC. Not to mention the Chinese and Indian cultures which existed 7000 years BC. There are many recorded tales which portray homosexuality, such as the story between Seth and Horus. Scientifically, historically and morally, this Qur'anic story is absurd.

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  • 17-24_m_w_h4_f1
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    http://www.missionislam.com/knowledge/homosexuality.htm

    but at the end can give up to the god and try ur best to be straight and just pray and cry but if u feel that u cant ok just try to get away from sexual intercourse just make it love and peach , peach and love :D

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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    Well first thanks for helping me :)) and you know what I give up lol ! I'm just gonna live my life ! maybe I shouldn't go fare in this it's too complicated for me ! I know i'm a good person and i know that God loves me, and like Delusions said we're not killing people ! we were born this way.

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  • 17-24_m_w_h4_f1
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    yes and specially me i know u well and u r my best one and i know that u r from my best ones i ever met :)

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  • 17-24_f_f_h3_f3
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    LOL so funny how some people are "convinced" its wrong and they might go to "hell" yet they're doing it then sorry but you deserve to go to hell! (just figure of speech--this is up to God not me)

    If i were 1% sure that it's wrong i'd not do it but since i believe in God's justice and mercy by just using some logic i'd understand that he can't punish us for something he created us with. So stop this shallow and not so smart look at things within a context of religion. God said if you think of me good you'll get good if you think of me bad you'll get bad. (check the link i put 1st you'll get the original text from it) and if you were a good Muslim or even a good BELIEVER whatever you religion is and you see that you do good things and dont harm anyone its shame on you to think that God is unfair to ignore all that and just punish you for the ONLY thing that is out of your control. Be open minded be LOGICAL and use the brains God gave ya ;-) . Cheers!

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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    Nice ! so now I deserve to go to hell for just being "CONFUSED" okay thanks :))

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  • 17-24_f_f_h3_f3
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    Nope, the idea of someone being convinced that something is wrong yet VERY determined to do it is like asking to be put in hell (which is their point of view not even mine) same as if i know stealing is bad so i stole now i should keep in mind the consequence of going to jail right? Not knowing or being confused is much better than "knowing" even if falsely and choosing to do the "wrong" thing however of course in that case i don't evem think anything is "forbidden" or whatever but just again figure of speech if you know what that means. So i'd suggest being more focused while reading as i wasn't writing in chinese or indian but very simple english ;) . Cheers!

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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    I can say Homosexuality is the most struggling thing is the world ! No one will find the answer ;) Only God knows

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  • 17-24_f_f_h3_f3
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    Perfect, see you've just summed it up :-)
    However, this shouldn't stop any of us from having faith in God's justice and mercy about this whole homosexuality thing that we didn't even get to choose or have any control over.

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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    I Agree with you :)

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  • 17-24_m_w_h4_f1
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    nice words delusions proud to know some one like u :)

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  • 25-34_m_f_h4_f4
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    I know god exists, I know he is out there, but I just don't like him that much. He is violent and unfair. BUT if these is a judgement day, if I really find myself one day standing before him, I will simply say "you created me like this, you can't judge me"

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  • What the fuck is wrong with you people !! How come all of you have this Stockholm syndrome with god ?? Its simple god dosnt believe in you and hates you and you should also not believe in him.

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  • 17-24_f_b_h3_f1
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    I have the same probleme like u shamy its unfair sometime i tel my self why you'r not normal why ur not like all other girls and i have no answer but i have faith i know its forbeden and i do my best to learn to live with that and im convinced that Every thing has a reason and specially good make us like this to testing us that's why we had to be strong and don't make a haram we had to have faith in allah and he will certainly récompense us for our patients this life will end even if we live 100 years so we had to do our best and just be patient (excuse my English) thanks for all

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