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I have an issue that make me hate my life am male and I'm 19 years old and I only think in sex and I want to have sex 24 hour am bisexual so am become horny when I see cute men and women even my nephews! huh I think I can't live or get married with that case I watch too much porn and I squirt 4 times a day ! I think I will die before 30 if I continue in that way ! I think I have extra amount of testosterone hormone or what I hate my life!

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  • 35-50_m_f_h2_f2
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  • dude you're 19 years old, all 19 years old males are horny 24/7..just wait couple more years you'll grow out of it.

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    don't need to worry man but like dr_mido_dr said you need to make you're day busy with other stuff ! hanging out with friends or practice some sport, just try to do something else or go see a psychologist maybe he has the answer.

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    U all don't know me I was a famous one and I destroyed my life with my hand now I don't have friends even I don't want to talk to any one and what make it worth that when I know new friends and they know that am bisexual they go away am lonely even the gays and lesbians in my university I cant reach them ! am just dying slowly and lonely I hate every thing in this life ! ...

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  • If hiding that you're Bi will help then do it cuz in any society you'll find people that simply dont get it and you're clearly telling wrong ones maybe you're an honest person but not a good judge of character.

    Drop the negative attitude because no one gets anywhere while hating themselves or their lives only way to improve your status is by being positive that things will get better because even your negativity won't attract people to you. Love yourself and people will love you :-)

    Also its kinda normal for males your age to be bit obsessed with sexual thoughts its part of your anatomy so dont over-think it and focus on other activities because life is full of them.

    Good luck and cheer up ;-)

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    i really love u ad respect Ur words to me but can u tell me how to get friends as i was in metal band and it was famous one on al sawy cutler wheel so i was not searching for friends they was searching for me and i don't feel good with men i don't i prefer to be with woman more than men as they are kind and more mature than men !

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  • I love how you stated that women are more mature than men, thank you! :D
    On topic though, well, first off you need to spread sexual intentions from friendship so when you seek for friendship just seek for it and don't try anything more so you wont lose that friend and when they see you never tried anything with them and you were just a good friend when you later tell them about your sexuality I'm pretty sure they'd only think of how good of a friend you are to them and won't care if you like men or women or monkeys in that case. Be honest with whoever you're seeking their friendship if you can't find friends easy in real life then maybe try online , there is chat rooms and FB etc but in the end the is to be HONEST and don't have any hidden intentions.

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    i love ur way and thank you can i stated here and take u as my first friend

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  • Well, you're 19! you're young (and horny, which is normal). Just don't harass anyone, don't try to get into anyone's pants and stick to a 'code of conduct'. Masturbate, but don't spread yourself too thin. About being BI, I think you may need to hide this or tone things down a little bit because people are still simply confused because of the idea of someone being into both sexes (it's just confusing to some, seriously) and try to approach people with the intention of just 'making friends' and I am sure you will be surrounded with a couple of good friends ^_^

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    del. thank you i respect that from u and i really thank god that i found a new family better than old ones at least u know me more and accept me

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    in the closet yay i love ur words man it rock me well :D haha thnq very much my friend :D btw i sent u a message :D

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    just don't reply with my name :D

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  • At some point of this topic I thought I was high someday and wrote it... then I totally forgot about it! LOL
    I'm 19, bi, and a horny metal head! :D.You're not alone my friend. It's so normal. We are supposed to have these sexual attractions and desires uncontrollably at this age. It's not like we're walking with a boner all day long!
    Embrace your sexuality so you can find peace of mind. Go for a workout sometime, maybe lifting weights. We have high levels of Test at this age, which results in building good muscle mass.
    Good luck..

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  • 17-24_m_b_h3_f3
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    I think you are suffering from serious anxiety and OCD issues. I suffer from the same thing and i am 21. It seriously confuses me and question my sexual orientation. Did you get abused before while you were young? Some say that people who got abused feel about this way.
    Do message me or PM me if you like. I would like to talk about this more.

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