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So , is it me ? or every other gay is simply a bloody sex addict ?
i`m not talking nonsense , i searched the whole web as the same time took a look around me just two words in my head "Top-Bottom" , r u being serious?
wtf is that , someone explain it ? wot`s the use of it ? a gay should be both of those ...
not one of them , that`s even not fair . however , being gay is a state of mind , not a sexual state ? i dunno about that , if so , then why the hell is everyone looking for sex?!
i`m not so perfect to judge others but i`ve seen enough to judge quite big number of them.
- if you`re not a sex addict , please , comment on this ? just counting :D -
Help though ! (Y).

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  • 12-16_m_b_h3_f4
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    I guess the sex addicts are the more outspoken ones but not all of us are like that. For the first two years I did not have sex because I thought it was very awkward and uncomfortable. All my relationships were based on emotions only until I trusted the right guy. To this day I am uncomfortable discussing sex publicly or making a big deal out of it. It is a very, very private matter to me.

    I know what you mean though but these people are not the majority, they just happen to be more visible because they are over-confident about themselves, or they simply have different interests and priorities than us.

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    EVERY SINGLE GAY I`VE MET OR SPOKEN OR SEEN IN MY LIFE WANTS SEX , am i too unlucky? or they r just too much ? ='3

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    eh..even tho im a girl and i shouldn't be sayin anything but i did notice the same for very long time XD but i've always kept it to myself so gay guys wont say im being a crazy feminist lesbian but yeah whats with with obsessing with sexual roles seriously whatever happened to a dinner and a movie or cuddling! sometimes i feel some of them aren't even gay they just want anyone to umm how do i say this well to be a top with XD

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    that`s why the longest relationship i had was with a cheesecake , felt better than any of those bastards looking for sexual pleasure while i believe that those so called "Top" could be gay , bi or even str8 , roles r shit sexual attraction comes after emotional attraction , at least that`s wot should have happened !!! :/

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  • I gess homosexuals are sexual because they are this way. If you are not sexual you ahould stop looking for gay topics, it gets u devastated, trust me. I stopped looking for all topics related to homosexuals, and now i feel oeaceful. I am ace .

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  • 12-16_m_a_h3_f1
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    There is some truth in what you claim, I guess a good number of gay guys are bloody sex addicts...

    Some of us are asexual because thats how we deal with our hidden desire and I guess some of us are sexually active and thats a way they use to relieve themselves, that doesnt mean behind all the sex one doesnt want to love or be loved, could be they just lost hope of finding love.

    I have never had sex but I think you should let the sex maniacs reply to this too haha

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  • My friend, asexuality is a valid orientation just homosexuality or heterosexuality. That is, i was born this way. And i do not have anything to hide. Just the thought of having sex with another individual makes disgusted. I am sorry to this word, but it is the only way to make you understand. I do not have homophobic nor heterophobic attitudes. In fact, I understand your orientations more than you mine. It is 2017, you have to get some insightful knowledge into all the orientations apart from the most understandable ones. I urge you all to do that. Thank you.

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