Or, it could be that I think that it's logical to be concerned.
I'm an atheist, pragmatic, logical to the degree that I hardly feel anything "or keeping emotions to the bare minimum". I never get angry, I hardly ever feel sympathy, etc.
So far, not an issue. It's just the way I am. Here is the deal though:
I'm an artist: painter and tattooist..I know it sounds controversial to state that I'm devoid of real emotions and still "have the nerve" to claim that I'm an artist but the thing is, I just understand the mathematics of beauty. I would think twice before I help someone who's hurting if his/her state is "beautiful". Because it's just that intriguing.
I'm also supposed to get married in few months. My fiancee', on the other hand, is an extremely emotional person with serious anger issues. How did we even end up together? she just liked me, which isn't a particular trait in my life. And I didn't want to end up alone-not that I mind it, it's just that some times I have needs "not just physical, but a co-dependent relationship seems like a requirement in all societies for public approval", and my guess is that she liked the image, she's younger than me with 3 years. Things were ok in the beginning, now they're simply not, which falls in the norm. I believe I need to feel emotional, towards anything, so I can apply it in the relationship "in case you wonder, ending it is not an option due to long complicated reasons"
Any ideas? affair? fake it? I'm open to suggestions. I wonder if my post makes sense to you.