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She thinks that I hate her. She loves him. He's a f*cking perv

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In my first topic I told my story, in the second I explained my situation but I missed something. So my ex thinks that I hate her ! because I told to everyone that I hate her and I don't want to see her anymore she's a b*tch and stuff like that, and I said that cuz i was AFRAID ( I still think about her ) ! So she worked out something ( revenge ) and I had a lot of problems in my high school because of her :\ anyway, earlier I found out that she has a Facebook account, we have a lot of mutual friends but we're not ! But the WORSE PART she's going out with someone I guess and they're together on FB ( engaged ) WTF?? seriously he's a perv, I know him !! And she knows that too ! He doesn't love her ! Did she do that cause I'm friend with him on FB ? Or she loves him for real ? I'm gonna shoot them both !! F*ck.

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  • Don't get jealous in a public way. If she knew you were jealous, she would enjoy it because it gives her some level of power. It would also be an unattractive quality because she will assume you're desperate.

    Also if she loves him and he's a pervert, then she will get sick of it soon. And if he doesn't love her, the relationship is bound to fail, so what's there to be jealous about? It appears to be that she has low standards.

    This is hard and it won't get easier if you keep looking up their Facebook profiles and being in touch with them. You need to distance yourself from her as much as possible, limit all texts, all emails, and remove her from Facebook to see how she feels. She might miss you and your friendship and come back or get worried about you and that's how you'll know if she truly cares about you in a mutual way or not. And if not, good riddance, I'd say!

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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    I'm not friend with her on FB ! And you know what I'm sick of this like really TIRED :( it's true I still think about her but, I'm gonna let go. I'll keep a really long distance from everything. I'm gonna stay on my own for sometime. And thank you for your advice :)

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  • 17-24_f_f_h3_f3
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    Shoot both of them!
    Ok on a serious note, you still playing the back and forth game with her all this time and i think you're overthinking it sometimes, its quite simple either she wants you or she doesn't so ask her and get it over with lol stop depending on finding out things through others or through the surrounding conditions cuz it wont be as accurate as you think and look at you now assuming and wondering and tiring your brain! #1 rule of wanting to find something out : ASK! . and like i told you, she seems like a piece of work if you ask me, perhaps if you cant get it over with with her you should really consider moving on. Been some time as you can see and you're not really anywhere with this. And keep in mind maybe she does like that new guy so yeah more reason to move on

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    God !! it's been 2 years and i'm sick of it like seriously, Okay it's over, I'll stay like this " Alone " wondering and doubting cuz I don't know if us " homosexual " we really love or it's just an illusion. Sorry don't take it wrong but, I don't think that one everything will be just fine and possible for us. I'm done.

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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    Sorry guys, I know you're trying to help me, but I'm so upset and feeling so sad deep inside, I'm like losing hope in everything :(

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    oh come on from 1 hit you go down like that :p ? cheer up! whether you're straight or homosexual, life will always be full of ups and downs and in order to learn you've to actually go thru a bad experiences first and here you are so just analyze it and see what you should NOT do next and move forward cuz you got yet a lot of experiences to go thru, a lot to learn and a lot to deal with.
    oh and keep in mind, we have to meet lots of "wrong" people so it'll be easier to recognize the "right" ones later :p

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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    Okay :) well I guess i'm going with this advice ! Thank youuuuuu so much :)))

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  • 17-24_m_b_h4_f4
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    Would it help to say that it's all chemicals? Love, Hate, anger, jealousy, etc?...Oxycontin, endorphin, serotonin...etc etc...no one is really worth your anger, not mentioning it won't solve a thing =) chill and be with someone of your standard: aka non pervy, smart etc..

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    you should just ignore her and I am sure if she still loves you she will come after you so just leave her and act as if though you don't really care I know it will be hard in the beginning but later you'll get used to fact that she knows you don't care and hopefully that will result in her talking to you again or even trying to get back with you

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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    well guys finally I'm friend with her on Facebook and we talked it was nice, and she asked me If I'm steel Bi i said to her no I'm not bisexual anymore! i don't know why I lied but I don't trust her :\\. Also she steels with him :( but deep down I know that she's thinking of me I just feel it ** well I'm waiting for something I have no idea what I suppose to do now ?!! I'm so confused so........!

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  • i think she trying to make you jealous and she is doing one hell of jobe.so i think you should wait if she realy love u she will come back to you eventualy .but you should be honest with your self and with her

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    what do u mean by being honest with her ? you mean I should tell her the truth that I steel love her o_O ? I don't trust anymore I can't do that :\ so all what i'm gonna do now is wait I'm gonna be smart.

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  • 25-34_m_a_h4_f4
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    well your whole story is a mess and tangled :/ ... you need to untangle it first, truth is a good start

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  • My rule of thumb in life, is that if someone is giving you a hard time and creating drama, then I walk away from that situation, no words, no fights, khalas, just finish. bye

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