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a year ago I met this girl, and I loved her with all my heart and she loved me 2 but she never told me the truth, we spent a lot of time together everything between me and her was so honest, until the day her parents knew everything about our history and it was all over and now she's in high school and I'm in another one away from her and I still love her, but rumors killed everything I'm afraid, people said a lot of stuff about me and it hurts but I have this strong character so I just want some answers?

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  • 25-34_f_w_h3_f2
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    Sorry you had to go through something like this, it looks like your separation was practically forced, and maybe it's something she feels she has to do to protect herself and her family...

    She needs time because she's still young and living with her parents, there's no way she can continue this relationship without them finding out sooner or later unless you are both extremely careful.

    If she really loves you she will fight back somehow and find her way to you. Unfortunately there's nothing else you can do than just wait... time will give both of you more answers. Also if she really loves you then she will not believe any of these rumors.

    • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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      thank u well I guess I'm just gonna wait, and we'll see what's gonna happen and also she's friend with all my friends we've talked before but it was so cold, it's all about rumors u know people are so unbelievable

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    • Hi Shannon if you discover that girl want you let the time stand your relationship but in the other way dont run behind a non sreious relation because your time will be lost...
      kisses to you

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    • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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      you're right thank you so much :))

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  • 17-24_f_f_h3_f3
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    If you guys are meant to be together you'll get together after all this passes. This could have been a fling between 2 teenage girls discovering the world also. However if it was strong and real I think it isnt so hard for you 2 to get in touch we're in 2013 there's internet, smartphones etc :p
    Put trust me you do have to get your closure and to find out if she is done with you so you can move on or not if she is still interested then find a way or agree to wait a bit but like don't just leave yourself hanging there in between and know where you stand exactly as soon as you can.

    Oh and don't care much about what people say..they say things whatever you do anyways.

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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    yes I must know what am I suppose to do , I don't know how I'm gonna do it but I'll find a way. As you know I'm stuck and she's afraid, she thinks that I'm saying to everybody that I've with her but I swear I didn't say a thing. Yesterday we had fight on phone and I don't know how she get my number lol..! anyway this story must have an end or another beginning.

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  • 17-24_f_f_h3_f3
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    Oh well dail her number back and have that talk and get it over with and dont care for what comes next think of it as a needle sting..once and for all..like do it and close yours xD tell her rationally that you did not say a word to another human being and if things were to pursue you wont say any.

    But, from what you say how she cares so much for people's opinions and talks I'd really be careful here..this kind of people might actually set you up in order for them to look all cool in front of others. She might also go around say you're after her and stuff. So seriously, be careful either way cuz the moment a person we thought loved us and cared for us starts to care about what people say more, its a sign that we should probably stop hoping to be with them xD

    • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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      I'm so confused, i don't know why she's doing this to me !! and she's the kind of persons who act normally but hide a lot inside ! she can lie and you believe her ! she said that she's in love with a boy and she said it to my best friend if you see what I mean ! or maybe she's doing this because I left but she never asked me to stay ! and also she's beautiful so boys are like....you know she can get anything she wants from them ! but with me she's torturing me lol XD !!!!

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    • 17-24_f_f_h3_f3
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      hmm..where are you from? if you dont mind me asking just wanna see if its 1 of those places where being gay is REALLLLY a "bad" thing cuz maybe this is why she is putting the act on to remove all the rumors. But also maybe she is like what you've said the kind that has an agenda inside and a totally different one on the inside and people who act the opposite of what they feel are to be careful of. If she is really with a boyfriend I'd say you should drop it all and move on cuz it'll mean she has made her decision (cuz if i love someone i wont go get with someone else xd u know) so if you cant get it over with by asking her directly and you see al these signs that she doesnt wanna continue this then just move on hun :) save your time.

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    • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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      well I'l from Algeria it's not really a bad thing being gay here but u know x) , and I have asked my best friend if she's with someone and she told me she's with no one !!

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    • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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      and I guess what she's really trying to do is getting me out of my mind for some reason. I know my story is completely insane !! sorry for that XD

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    • 17-24_f_f_h3_f3
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      Oh well most of our stories are insane so dont worry about that :D
      Well, people who mean and intent to mess with other people's heads and emotions are another big no-no for relationships also I'm not sure why if she loves you she acts like that normally if we love someone what we try to do is get closer to them not further away. You know her better but if i were you i'd have moved on some time ago already. Either just talk directly to her or drop the whole thing you dont have to torture yourself like that :P

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    • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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      you're right I don't have to torture myself :P I'll talk to here in a way or another! and thank you so much dear you really helped me thank you :)

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    • 17-24_f_f_h3_f3
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      Good luck!
      and let us know how did it go :p

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    • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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      thanks yes I will ;)

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  • 17-24_m_w_h4_f1
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    i have the same problem dear i want to tell every one that im bisexual ! but i have that silent second with my self telling me "wait you will not be accepted in any place so i love being here with u all u r my new family

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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    you're welcomed here dear, cause we're all here to help and to get help , so you can share your story with us :)

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