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Good morning ladies and gents..

What are we looking for with a partner of the same sex ?
Personally it differs for me cuz I'm just a moody person and I've met different people with different opinions such as those who clearly just want a sexual relationship with a person of the same sex so they're looking for pleasure they do admit they are attracted to them sexually but have no intentions to build up a long term relationship and can only see it happening with a person of the opposite sex and some are the complete opposite they just feel comfortable with a person of the same sex and they have pretty much no sexual activities going on (making out tops) and some just wanna "try" and some are the normal relationship kind of people you know..

So which one are you? Be honest, even if pleasure is what you're after its ok, you're a human being with desires after all or are you the commitment kind of person ? Or just experimenting ?

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  • 17-24_m_w_h3_f1
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    I want a normal relationship... actually i had one but it couldn't last longer than what it took.... i want love, long term relationship, and sex of course, i want a very normal relationship.

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  • hi every one , all we are live in this life to be for each others ! man to women or man to man , women to women , some also they like it in group like < two man with one women or two women with one man or two man with two women , >>>>>> just we need to enjoy , i'm sure every body look for some thing new in his life , be happy my dear , do what do you want and what do you like >>>> don't care about any thing
    see you there ! buy

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  • 17-24_m_b_h2_f4
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    i want a husband, with the whole marriage rituals .... the love and the cuddling and the inside jokes, the romance flick tears, the children and their school drama
    but i know this is only a dream (more of a nightmare for my mother!!) but till then, ill keep looking for someone that can click with me and doesnt just want to makeout and have sex ... im down with all that but i wont have 'our' first kiss until we both have this wordless agreement that the time is here

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  • you know if you try and look for the thing that you want to have in your partner you may never have it try to wait for him or her to come because when your eyes will fall to seek and a feeling will come along with it I ll know that he will be the right one for me Life is too short to wait for the most ideal one you need to take risks maybe you will find it with the first one you see or maybe he is too far way from way right now

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  • 17-24_f_f_h3_f3
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    Its somehow nice that boys are the ones looking for a steady relationship :) I knewwww I loved gay dudes for a reason

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  • 17-24_f_w_h2_f4
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    wat im looking for?..well..a pure&romantic rship based on love&care&help&share&honesty i always giv n they never giv bk..im kinda emotional..sex? for me i dnt want any sexual rship right now..i jus need to feel something...something that i ve never felt a long time ago..but till now that person didnt show up..

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  • 17-24_f_f_h3_f2
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    I think I'm all of the above

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    ok so good tel me haw we can meat to discus more about it ?

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  • 17-24_m_f_h2_f3
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    i want a real relationship witha a person who will love me as i'm

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  • 17-24_m_f_h2_f3
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    a Friend or a beloved ahhhh i'm waiting 22 years to find my lover ....

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    Hurts me to say what I really want since I'm still brooding over something that I lost seven months ago but then, maybe it's a good time to figure out what I really want or even admit that I still want something.

    What Mina said about wanting a normal relationship, I second that. Just something normal. Enjoy life together, experience new things, and etc.

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  • Well, as a gay guy, I can tell that what I need doesn't differ from what a straight guy wants, I want a stable relationship and a normal one. A partner who we can both share everything and I can be myself in front of. In a nutshell, a relationship that is honest and pure ^_^

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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    Hi Delusions, what i'm looking for is that girl who understands me , loves me .to have things in common, to be honest , committed no lies & to feel free to say anything just like best friends i need a best friend but no straight so she can understand me & be more than a friend to me , to do everything together , be open with each other not hiding anything i just wanna feel that thing i never felt before but i cant find that person & i guess its so hard to find her as i'm from egypt // i have many feelings that are captured inside of me & can't get it out i dont know till when .. life is unfair & for sex its not the main thing i think emotions comes first then attraction not just to have sex without feeling anything .. that's how i feel & what i want .. i guess its so hard ha?

    • 12-16_f_w_h2_f3
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      It's not so hard as we all think .. here we all are in the same boat dear .. But you can chose any friend here like me or any one you wanna to talk to her and it will be easy .. And we all are still searching

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    • 25-34_f_w_h1_f3
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      I think i am searching for the same somehow .. but here people need just chatting and nomore that's why we will never have what we need .. i 'm from cairo too if u want to have me as a friend don't hesitate to send me inbox

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  • hmm well i want a relationship, a long termed one, also i want passion, love, sharing, sex and caring .
    a compatible mate that's it i guess

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f4
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    Yeah we all have our needs, to be honest when i was younger i thought of sexual relationships only however wgen I got older I came to find that the best thing in the world to find your other half, feel the love and the warmness and also I will have to say that there is absolutely nothing better sharing bed with the one you love most

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    do what do you want and what do you like enjoy your self

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  • 25-34_f_w_h2_f3
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    am lookin for a hot bifem to love )

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  • 17-24_f_w_h1_f1
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    I want to feel a connection, Long kisses and long talks not looking for a relationship so soon I want someone to get to know me before jumping into anything, and i do want sex.

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  • 17-24_f_b_h1_f2
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    i prefer a partner that i am both sexually attracted to and with a lot of ties (interests, politics, etc.) sadly for me this is hard to find. a lot of the women that i have sexual chemistry with turn out to be bores or we dont share the same ideals and i can't formulate a relationship with a person like that. sex is not everything. a true partner must be in full sync with the other person and if not, best to let it go and look elsewhere for a better fit. i cant imagine myself with such a person for more than a year. the sex does get old after a while. so we all need more than that to maintain a relationship.

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  • 25-34_f_w_h1_f3
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    Totally agree with you .. but sometimes when we find this person we lose him /her out of trust issues.. age problem , distance ...

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  • 12-16_m_a_h3_f1
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    I'm submissive monogamist gay guy, I dont really expect my 'husband' to be a monogamist but wouldnt want to be abandoned.

    I want to be date him, fall in love, get engaged, make a wedding, start a life 'together', travel and party, explore sex and have babies, get rich together, make wrong choices, go through hell and still come back to each others arms for tender love and care.

    Basically I want what straight people have till death does them apart with a fellow man.

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  • Not so hard Just be open to all options and all kinds of people as your options are not many in the Middle East so if you're not a very picky person and if you truly admire people for who they are away from their looks or only having a sexual relationship with them then you'll find what you're looking for because many people need the same as well Just dont be afraid to chase what you feel you might have a chance with and best of luck!

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  • 12-16_f_w_h2_f3
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    Yes you both are right .. But there is no encouragement to do any thing :/

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