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few days ago i accidentally ran into someone that does not know me at all and i just found their personality so similar to mine and for 3 days or so and i cant stop thinking about them when i'm like 99.99% sure they dont even know about me..is this normal? is it possible? is it possible that all these thoughts be just thrown in the dust as the other person has no idea of your existence at all? or maybe they do? it this feeling normal? or does it just generate easily for us towards same sex because due to the difficulty of finding someone like you in our society and we might just hang on a straw like a drowning man seeking salvation or is it some kind of unhealthy obsession (i wouldnt take it that far though as its not stalking just "a thought" nothing more than them being on my mind-not even creeping them out online or anything-)

What do you think ?

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  • 17-24_m_w_h3_f1
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    I had the same thing before, and it's possible actually ,it does happen :3

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  • 12-16_f_f_h1_f1
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    i think it's totally natural to have crushes like this. and it's easier sometimes to have them be this intense when we are like you said living a more difficult/secretive life. it means you want to spend time with someone and love them, and i don't think that's a weird or creepy thing at all.

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  • 17-24_f_f_h3_f3
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    Yeah..but is it also possible or normal that after 4 days of almost obsession and complete admiration of their looks and whatever they say to just suddenly feel absolutely nothing towards them anymore..

    • 17-24_m_b_h2_f4
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      yes this is normal too .... maybe u r trying to restrain yourself so u wont "fall" any deeper, and probably u wanted to direct some emotions stored in u and they found release in a person u thought is so similar to u !! X)))

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    • 17-24_f_f_h3_f3
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      Ok..so the "crush" is back (yes im unstable i know :p or maybe its the weather and the weekend!) should i do something about it that at least now this person "knows" me (as in can identify me so not personal knowledge :D) or let it go ?

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    • 17-24_f_f_h1_f3
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      it happens to me all the time so it's normal and possible. i 'm obsessed by readheads, and it usually happens each time i saw one

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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    it happened to me before, but i wasn't lucky and these people never acknowledged me or even noticed me, so i moved on.
    I think you should just let go before you get hurt.

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  • 17-24_f_f_h3_f3
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    And to be more weird about that..after i got her attention, i lost all interest in her yup..so much for stability!

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  • Look sometimes when you like someone they likes you back it's "the low of attraction" like what happened with me with my ex i liked her and i can tell you she was so straight until she meet me she liked me back and also she was the one who kissed me first what i wanna say here that there is signs you see when this person is liking you back try to find it

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f1
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    I had such a feeling before when I was in summer camp about 16 years old towards that amazing buetiful girl, but I ended up leaving summer camp for it was a new scary feeling for me

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  • 17-24_f_w_h1_f4
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    ooohhh same ,, w di moshkla kbira coz i keep think about her all the time but at the same time i dont wanna to take a single step to know her msh 3rfa eh da bs ymkn 7es el suspence 3andy 3aly shwaya

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