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What actions that other homosexuals or bisexuals do, that you think give homosexuality a bad name ?

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I wanted to ask all of you: what actions do some homosexuals do that you think shouldn't be linked to homosexuality and can be considered "bad conduct". Out of the circle of mere judgment, what would you wish that other homosexuals wouldn't do so much ?!

I do believe that personal freedom is a right for everyone. But there is a difference between freedom and acting out.

I know that this particular discussion is considered dangerous waters to swim in. But I really wanna know what do you think about this.

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  • 17-24_m_w_h3_f1
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    When homos hit on hetero people.

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  • 25-34_f_w_h3_f2
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    I think it's a difficult topic because in my opinion there isn't anyone in particular who represents the entire gay and lesbian community. If someone acts out in a negative way, then they are giving their own selves a bad name. In the end we represent only ourselves and our actions reflect on only us and not our ethnicity, race, sexuality, and so on.

    Is there anything you think gives the LGBT community a bad name?

    • 17-24_f_w_h3_f4
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      Most LGBT i know are either doing drugs, or are indecent or simply promiscuous.. i know it's not all and i know it has nothing to do with sexual orientation.. it's simply a desire to cross lines other than the one they already crossed by being different sexually

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  • 17-24_m_w_h3_f1
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    the thing is..as i see it, when an individual homosexual act out in a way..people connect it to all the others. and the other reason is that humans are afraid of what they don't know..it's in their nature, so they tend to fear from homosexuals..they act like this is a curse..i used to live in the states when i was little, and when my father died, my mom and i came back to egypt.. all of my friends back there knew that i was gay, some in egypt do too. when i arrived they "warned me" not to tell anybody about my sexuality as it is a disease or that it is something wrong.

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  • 25-34_m_b_h1_f4
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    Being sexually active all the time AKA horny.. :D
    Some gays are really annoying by hitting on other guys whether straight or gay.. leading to the society conclusion describing any gay as a natural equivalent of a whore..

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  • 17-24_m_w_h3_f1
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    How come I never saw this ;(

    Newais, hitting on people constantly, always being horny, thats not normal lol

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  • 17-24_m_b_h2_f4
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    i dont thing being horny is what gives us a bad name .. i mean we're living in the middle east, "horny" is what defines a hetero male here .. i dont think that any gay can surpass a str8 in the "horny" department.

    • 17-24_f_w_h3_f4
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      I completely agree.. but the problem is that a heterosexual peg is just a peg here.. it's normal for him to act this way

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    • 17-24_m_b_h2_f4
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      i dont understand ?? so its ok for heteros to act like that ?? cuz i personally mop the floor with my hetero friends who keep checking girls and "comment" on them (especially the ones that know im gay i just LOOVE to prove that gays rnt the sex-machines like they think .. and they r much worse)

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    • 17-24_m_w_h3_f1
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      u go battareya.

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    • 17-24_m_b_h2_f4
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      yea cheer me on XDD its quite fun tbh .. u should try it too XDDD

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    • 17-24_m_w_h3_f1
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      I do defend us infront of people who attack us and say we're weird and we're just sex machines etc. :)

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    • 17-24_m_w_h2_f3
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      i hit on heterosexual guys all the time and they hit on me too. it is fun and there's no harm unless it is leading to something destructive. actually the problem that causing us problems is actually among us and the bi itself like the governed title.

      majority of bi are married, or have a girlfriend on the side and wanting another men to play with.if the other men are as shallow as him that's perfect, but in times those shallowness will be filled with longings, and guilt when he realised that the guy he has been sleeping with have gf that doesn't know about his bf extracurricular activity. he is the dirty laundry,

      second is those gay guys who create a scene in the public eyes, like whoring around unprofessionally and those doing prostitution business, inside a building that attracts unwanted attention, police and media which in turn will reflect badly on us. do it if you want, make the wild orgy or have sex on the ceilings or moan loudly until you r mother vase break, but do respect others, we live in a world that we share. if we respect others we will gain other respects in return; the more you give the more you get.

      lastly, the gay people who been selling other gay people contacts, pictures and some personal data to other people. if it with the permission ok fine you can do it. but if you are doing it without others permission no matter how reasonable your reason are, don't. you will attract an unwanted attentions towards that person.

      basically, the problem caused by the homos and the bi are more worst, compared to heteros. but when we accumulate it all together, heteros have the upper hands because we see it publicly. but the gay related bashing towards another is only in close knit community so you shall need a magnifying glass to see their faults.

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    • 17-24_f_w_h3_f4
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      I agreeeeeeeeeee

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  • 17-24_f_b_h1_f2
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    The thing i hate is how media portraits gay and lesbians in TV shows or movies..first they make being gay is all what they are,n like they got nothing else to offer or do in life. Been gay is just part of us n who we r but not our label. N the worse thing is how they always make the gay characters having sex all the time, or jump straight into making one night stand thing or a threesome with straight people!!

    FUCK PERVY STRAIGHT PRODUCERS WHO RUIN GOOD GAY STORY :(

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  • 25-34_m_b_h1_f4
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    Yes I definitely agree, hetero male in general are way more horny but unfortunately the patriarchal society dominates, being a horny male is fine if you are straight (according to their logic) on the other hand they label a horny woman as a whore immediately as well as gays.

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  • 17-24_m_b_h2_f4
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    well then this means it isnt our fault ... homosexuals have a bad name mainly cuz heteros like to point fingers and act innocent

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