Why do I always sense that relationships in our gay community doesn't last? I mean, how many of you witnessed a relationship that lasted for more than 2 or 3 years??
I stayed 2 years with my ex, and people would go like " 2 YEARS, WOW!!" like it was a miracle ! And the only relationship I knew of that went on for 6 years, ended just like that !!
Why do I feel that spending a lifetime with the person you love is a far away dream? Do we lack the commitment bond found in straight marriage? I mean, you can't easily be labeled Divorced, but it's easy to break up with someone..
Do we get bored easily? or do we know from the beginning that this will never last, so it's okay anyway?
Is it because of our community? If I were in another country, a foreign one, probably I'd be living with my gf in an apartment the way we want. But here, talk about getting away from your home and your family to be able to live with your someone, it's the only way out!!
How many homosexuals in their 40s are spending their days with their partners? speak about 50s? speak about 60s?
I love it here with you guys, I can speak my mind openly, that's why I can say that I am terrified of the future, terrified to find myself someday alone, looking back and finding that my life was a series of relationships that didn't last for a reason or another. I'm trying my best to make a life of my own with my gf, but what if we couldn't pull it together?
Can a homosexual couple, in our community, live happily ever after?