I thought this topic deserves to be discussed here.
Some of us might have a bad experience in his early years. I as example, had really hard experience as a child. I was around 8 years old, and some family member molested me. Unaware of what that was, it kept on happening for several times, until I took a stand just cuz it was feeling awfully wrong and gross. leaving a very deep scar in my soul, and leaving me a deep feeling of hatred to this person, and the feeling that I could never be with a man.
However, back in the days, and when I was around 10 years, I actually had my 1st time flirting with a girl. She was my best friend back then. And again, I wasn't aware of sexuality or even what I was doing, I just did it! =D
Some of the girls I came across had similar bad experiences at a very young age. I just couldn't help but to connect what happened to us with our sexual orientation now. Not that I have any regrets about being gay, I actually feel so comfortable with myself, but I can't keep myself from wondering, if this didn't happen to me, would I become a straight?
Also I am not like a man hater, but I just can't imagine myself with a man, tho I love having guys as my friends. But that's it, friendship.
Did it happen to any other one out here? Whether a man or a woman? .