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what does it feel to be in love?

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that question says it all.
i have never been in love and i want to get an understanding of whats the big deal about it
and i have watched all those stupid romantic movies and shit but none of them have been able get me to understand it.

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  • 25-34_f_f_h2_f3
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    I've been in love. It's the best and sometimes, when it goes wrong, the worst feeling. It's when you find yourself loving someone, going beyond their looks, and just being happy and honored to have them in your life. Love is when you can talk to them when you've had a bad day and just that makes you feel better, turning everything around. Love is caring for someone and knowing that they care just as much for you. There is passion in love, trust and understanding. When people say they feel 'whole', they really mean that they don't feel alone anymore. They have the one person who'll be with them through thick and thin. So even when things go awry, you find yourself fighting because love is worth fighting for. It's cheesy and sappy and all those songs about love start making sense to you.

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  • 17-24_m_w_h3_f3
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    Oh sh**. :( Why did I read that? :'( lol

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  • 17-24_f_w_h2_f1
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    I fell in love once, but it wasn't the lasting kind and to be honest, I don't think I know truly what love is. Just what I've seen and it's all what Rana said.

    • 17-24_f_w_h2_f1
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      UPDATE: I'm in love. Haha. This is crazy and kinda scary. But it's a wonderful feeling. I think about what would happen if my heart breaks and honestly, I wouldn't regret that either. It's worth it. I'm not going to regret it because I wanted this. So how does it feel? Like my heart is so full, I honestly didn't believe I was capable of all this feeling. Love is not an easy feeling to understand. It really screws with your perception. It's nothing like what you pictured or thought you'd want, but then you just start seeing everything a different way, till your world is rearranged around your love and that's fine too. Love songs start making a lot of sense, your mind is crowded and filled with thoughts of that one person and it surprises you, all the time.

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  • 17-24_f_f_h1_f3
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    everyone loves differently i guess...

    when your IN love the person is never out of your head, everything reminds you of him/her, they make you happy even when other things are going wrong, you dont know what you'd do without them, you wear everything they give you, you love everything to do with them and when they finally let you go, you can't find a single way to hate them so you just feel sorry for yourself and despair for yourself that there's nothing you can do about it...

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  • 12-16_m_f_h4_f4
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    When youre in love you can't wait to wake up the next day to face the person you love and want near you all the times. You will feel safe and confident in anything just happy and flawless. It's not easy to find this type of love. When you do it is usually in unexpected circumstances and low moments of your life then you meet this person that completely sweeps you off your feet.

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  • 25-34_f_w_h1_f4
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    Well, there is no definition for being in love. It just happens. And when it does, all the silly things on the silly romantic movies make sense " Not all of them of course =D, but most of them anyway"

    And to be honest, sometimes being in love hurts badly, like when you love this person so much, and they just do something stupid, it hurts a thousand time more than usual, and when you do something stupid yourself, it hurts a million times more than usual knowing that you hurt the one person you care for the most.

    I really can't find words to describe it, it's just like trying to describe a beautiful dance, or an exotic scent, you just feel it.

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  • 17-24_f_b_h3_f4
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    Love is something passionate that any given explanation you receive will not bring you to feel it anymore than you do now.

    Love is when you let him read you Comics, although you hate hate comics, but seeing that spirit in his face lights up your heart, and makes you love Comics.
    Love is when you make him Chili Cheeseburgers, when you are a vegetarian.
    Love is when you bake him ginger cookies in the morning, so he can bring them to work.
    Love is when you're driving, and look beside you to see this beautiful face that can occupy your eye sight for a century.
    Love is when you're sick, and he drops absolutely everything to make sure you have enough clam chowder to smile.
    Love is when you'd die for them.
    Love is basically when you care about someone more than yourself.

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  • 17-24_m_w_h3_f1
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    Naive n stupid.

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  • 17-24_m_w_h3_f1
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    love is knowing that someone out there who would give up the world to stay with you, someone you can go to when you are sad, when you touch his or her hand you will feel like you got touched by an angel, his hug got a healing powers that makes you forget everything

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  • 17-24_m_w_h3_f1
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    that what i felt util we left each other lol

    • 12-16_f_b_h1_f2
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      I lol'd at this. Sorry! Well, you'll find someone. I believe we all will at some point. But then, there is nothing wrong with being alone. It's our natural state.

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  • 17-24_m_w_h3_f1
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    I understand..life could bee so unfair sometimes!...it's okay to lol I ment to say it in a funny way haha

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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    i feel sad reading this really cuz i'm exactly the same, i have never been in love

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f1
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    I never fallen in love And i don't really feel sad about it, cause if you dont know something you wont miss it i guess

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