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  • 17-24_f_b_h1_f2
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    when you think of a happy relationship that completes you and fulfills all your desires, do you envision it with a male? a female? both? when you think about the people you felt a strong attraction to, what do they usually identify as? lesbian/bi/trans etc? who you fall for and who you develop strong feelings for is usually what determines your preference and identity. sometimes people who identify as straight fall really in love with a woman and realize they are bi. or bi people realize they are actually lesbian because they can't see themselves with anyone but a woman and don't feel attracted to males anymore. it takes many years to find out and some people never do! as long as you find the love of your life don't worry too much about putting labels on yourself it's what matters least!

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  • 25-34_m_w_h1_f4
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    sometimes you never really know and that is fine. more important to meet the right person who will help you understand your main attractions and preference.

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