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Lately IV been feeling a bit down so I come here once in while to read topics, all I’ve been finding is people looking for distractions, sexual experiences, sex, thresomes and some others sexual topics, which is disappointing, am I the only one just looking for friends to connect with and share same interests? Am I the only one not interested at all in any sexual activity or relationship? Am I the only one just wanting to feel less lonely ? Hopefully not.

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  • 17-24_f_w_h2_f1
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    You're not alone

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    You are not the only one. Lately the topics have gone say left field, many I don't bother to read. Chatting is cool, but many will not respect that I prefer to be initially discreet at first.

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  • 25-34_f_w_h1_f3
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    You aren't alone dear i am so not interested in anything sexual i am here to feel related, to find solace in topics of concern to people like me, i am here trying to find like minded people to talk to, to learn from and not to feel completely isolated. So plz know that we are here

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  • 17-24_f_w_h2_f1
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    Worries me a bit that a lot of topics and replies are leaning towards finding marriage of convenience. But at the same time it gets me thinking about our society and how unfair it is that people have to resort to such extreme measures.

    Like others have said, you’re not alone!!

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      This is troubling for me too, i even wonder if some of us do lean to the pressure and marry someone straight just get rid of family pressure

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    • 17-24_f_w_h2_f1
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      Yea it’s either that or internalized homophobia where they can’t bring themselves to be in a relationship with someone else of the same sex.

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  • 25-34_f_f_h1_f3
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    I guess in some cases where family pressure is increasing day by day,moc is the only way out.
    And sadly,finding a moc partner is not that easy.

    • 17-24_f_w_h2_f1
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      It’s such a delicate thing. You really need someone who you can trust. I feel like if two people decide to go through with it then they need an exit plan. The purpose should not only be to relieve family pressure but to leave a situation where they are at risk.

      Just don’t do it if you don’t share the same goal with your partner.

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      I totally agree with you.thats what makes it more difficult to find the right partner.but for me moc is the only way out and i do want to make it works.

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  • I agreeeee, it is like we are losing the human sense!!!!! I wanna have things other than sex! I wanna go out, have fun and enjoy life as it is!! I hate our community because of the lack of these senses .....

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  • You‘re definitely not alone. I‘m not here for sex either. I‘m not the type to dive into something this intimate on the internet. I also just got on this platfrom to stop feeling like the only one out there. And I must say it did help. I’m still blown away by how many people there are! For too long I felt like I would never meet anyone who felt the way I did. I always considered myself the odd duckling hiding in fear of discovery.
    But sex is a huge part of it. Whether one likes it or not, when your sexual desires are so extremely oppressed it gradually turns into this huge deal in your life and it controls your every thought, so I can‘t say it bothers me because I can totally understand even if I can‘t relate to it.

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  • 17-24_f_w_h2_f4
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    surely not alone i`m here 4 the same reason nd it`s troubling for me

    we can help each other

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