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Lost. Lesbian/bi

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Okay. I’m a girl. I’ve been always attracted to girls. However, I’ve never dated any girl, or spoke about this with anyone around me.. i’ve dated guys, but it doesn’t feel right. I’ve been looking around me for lesbian or bi females, but I can’t find anyone since I’m arab and the community around me is pretty strict. I wanna start dating females because I’m on the verge of getting married and I just wanna know my real sexual orientation. What do I do ppl?

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  • 25-34_f_f_h3_f3
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    You say "it doesn't feel right" when you date guys, do you experience any attraction to them at first (in the same way as girls)? I don't have any specific advice, but maybe someone here has been in a similar situation.

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      Anonymous
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      Yes, I guess I do. But then, things don’t add up.

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    Anonymous
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    hi i can help aim a bi girl

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  • 25-34_f_w_h1_f3
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    I guess u need to ask yourself a set questions, like when surrounded by a group of supposedly attractive men and women who turns your head and have u following them around the men or the women? If u watch porn what do you prefer watching? Your favorite celebrities are mostly men or women? Do you easily fantisize being with men or women? My advice don't get married before being absolutely sure about your orientation, don't get married because u have to get married only get married because u want to or else u won't be happy

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