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How does it feel to kiss a girl?

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I'm new here and I'm really curious to find out how it feels and how different it is from kissing a man? if you've been through this with a girl before or even more than just a kiss, please let me know... dying to know here.

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  • 17-24_f_w_h2_f1
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    Never been with a man so can't compare there. But it's good! If you're like me, how you feel will be determined by how you feel about the person. I need to really like them else I feel nothing.

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    A kiss is a kiss. No difference. Its really all psychological. If you were blindfolded and each gender kissed you, do you think you'd be able to tell? More than likely not. Please don't get tricked into thinking it will be some magical experience because it isn't.

    What will get you confused is the idea of actually kissing a girl. Once your over that nostalgia, reality kicks in. Then you will notice that even with a girl you will encounter the same good and bad you will with a man. They are no better.

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      I couldn’t agree more

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    • I don‘t agree with you on that one. From experience kissing a man is totally different from kissing a woman. Don‘t forget the facial hair situation
      But hell yeah, a relationship is a relationship so if a kiss develops into something more and you end up in a relationship it definitely doesn‘t matter, that‘s what lgbt communities have been trying to tell the world for decades now. The difference though lies within the fact that if you are only attracted to a certain gender but end up forced to live with another, then that‘s one damn miserable life, my friend. So yes the problems of a relationship stay the same nevertheless, but if our friend here feels a certain way then liking a woman and then actually getting the chance to act upon that by kissing her is definitely a huge deal and it cannot be compared to kissing a man.

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      Clearly you had the chance to actually see the man you kissed prior to the action of kissing him. Not all men have facial hair. Some me have VERY soft skin, no facial hairs and soft lips than some women.

      My point is to be blindfolded, would you really know. Every kiss does not have to have some emotional connection to it. Try venturing outside of your city, town or country. Observe how free and liberal some random people can be. There are girls who kiss girls for the hell of it and have no desire to engage in intense homosexual activities.

      I personally find kissing to be extremely intimate and I dont think everyone has the best hygiene so I don't allow it.

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    • 17-24_f_w_h2_f1
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      I don't think lola is asking about hypothetical kisses with strange people. She's asking specifically about intimate kisses and our emotional responses to it.

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      I can read, I understood her statement. There is more than one way to answer the question. Am I right?

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      Being that I've experienced kissing both, I gave a very unbiased view based on my experience. If you have only tried with one gender, it would be biased to answer the question.

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    • That was my aim, as well. Let‘s just agree to disagree then I just believe there is a difference. And I did kiss people that I had no connection with, because at that time I was just trying to prove a point to myself. Those kisses definitely exist. But being blindfolded, that clearly never happened to me, to which I’m thankful, but I’m really not sure it matters. Because if I’m blindfolded I wouldn’t enjoy any kiss at all. There would be no need to know if it‘s a man or a woman. It would totally freak me out. Kisses mean something to me and to be at the receiving end of some strangers would only ruin it for me. As you just said, hygiene and all that. Totally prudent. But as I said, because I’ve always known who I’m kissing, I just always felt there‘s a difference. It doesn‘t matter anyway. There‘s no harm in trying and seeing for herself. There‘s also a chance lola won‘t even like it at all

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      LoL... I agree 100% I would gag

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  • i think its from feeling if you love someone every touch be different a kiss or any small things have touch in your heart

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    From my point of view, I know I would know the difference if am blindfolded considering I have kiss both sex, I pretty much know how different each feels and the issue of emotions of course is a factor, but if I had to kiss random people I would know a guy’s kiss coz simply I don’t enjoy them. Simple as that for me.

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  • 25-34_f_w_h1_f3
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    I think and i am not completely sure either

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