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    Depends, I mean if you met 2 people you don't know them at all one of them very good looking and the other one hah not bad and you got to choose one of them without saying one word you would to choose the pretty one right? But maybe when you get know both of them more and more you would hate the pretty one cause like bad stuff in his or her personality basically when you love someone you see them the prettiest even if they're not

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      Totally agree with you when I was with my gf you know my friends used to say she is not pretty enough although I saw her the most pretty thing on this planet I didn't care for their opinion but when we broke up I realized they were right lol

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  • 25-34_f_b_h1_f4
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    it sounds vain, but kinda cuts the deal if the person looks attractive on the outside.. but also beautiful outside and trashy inside will be such a turn off

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    For me, to even consider someone as attractive, I need to be emotionally attracted to them first. Otherwise I am pretty much incapable of feeling the tiniest bit of attraction no matter how pretty they are.

    • Seems like I‘m not the only one on this planet. Totally second that. Emotional connection is key and as soon as that is covered, looks play a minor role to me. Once I‘m hooked on a person, in my eyes she‘s a walking beauty.

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  • 25-34_f_w_h2_f2
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    Looks doesn't matter, its what inside that matters and whether we connect or not, but proper hygiene is a must lol.

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    Here's my opinion. I only had relationships with VERY attractive people. In my experience the ugly girls were so cocky and arrogant, I couldn't figure out why. They should always be humble because MOST don't want them. On the other hand, and attractive person usually never hide their personality with me. So I knew up front if I was willing to accept those flaws or not. So go for an ugly person that's nasty or a pretty person that's nasty. I chose pretty all day

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  • 17-24_f_a_h1_f4
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    The basic idea is, pretty people will always get the first eye contact. And the choice of deciding btw a pretty person from a not so much pretty person starts from you. If you yourself is pretty and arrogant then you will go for one just like you but if your pretty with a good atitude then facial apearance wont matter to you but the heart!

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      That does not apply to me. Im attractive with too good of a heart, and attraction matters to me. When I fell short with average looking ppl, their confidence increased and arrogance realized its ugly head in them. So I can't agree to your statement.

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  • 25-34_m_w_h1_f4
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    Looks play an important role whether you like it or not. The question is how much of a role. I like friendly people who smile and dont have much makeup (if a girl).

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