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should I come out to my sister ?

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Hello guys, this is frank here
I don't know how to start it but I'm really close to my sister I'm 20 and she is 24 we are really close to each other we share alot of secrets we go out together
we hug each other all the times I share my problems with her and she is REALLY nice to me last night we were talking about my ex gf (I'm bi ) she were saying why we left each other then she asked
if I had any problems like physical or sexual I said NOO I don't have any problems she was like even sexual ? I said no I'm okay she kept asking again please if there
are any problems tell me I'm your sister I love you and I will always be with you I won't tell anyone but tell me what's your problem I will help you and face all your
problems with you I couldn't endure that I almost cried she was looking to me in the eyes she knew I had sexual problems but I couldn's say anything I was afraid to make
her sad or upset I don't want her to know she might hate me or leave me I don't wanna lose her she is the MOST person I LOVE in my life it ended that I left the room saying there are no problems. so please how can I deal with this sooner or later she will start asking again and I just want her to forget everything about this topic how should I act or what should I do please help?

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  • Your sister seems to really care about you, and being honest with her can lift a huge burden off your shoulder so that you don't have to deal with this alone. But it's best to first ask her generally what she thinks about bisexuals and depending on her reaction, you'll find the answer without making things awkward between you two. If she's positive about it you should feel free to come out. It would be nice to have a sibling you trust and can go to whenever you experience issues that she can help out with.

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    That happened before.. We discussed the problem about music park concert we talked about lgbt she found it okay but outside Egypt cause here we are Islamic country and we can't be homosexual plus what if she didn't accept me I know she might will by time but I told you she is the most person I love in my life and I don't want her to take a step back from me ! or abandon me so Idk probably I won't tell her but I want to make her forget this topic and don't ask me again how can I do that ?

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    From experience...We are that close with my sister and I rem asking her of her stand on LGBT people and she was like it would be okay for her and that gave me the courage to come out to her and that was the last day she ever spoke to me...she calls me demonic and says other very hurtful words so.. coming out ain't that important

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    Oh I'm really sorry for that you deserve better ♥ yeah after long thoughts I'm not gonna tell her

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    I wish you all come the best way! Agree with Omar.

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