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Is it so wrong to be in the closet? Does everyone NEED to know whom you desire intimately?

I personally am totally okay with someone wanting to remain in the closet. Sometimes the secrecy is even sexier. the subliminal flirting and teasing may make the private moments one (or even dozens) night to remember.

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  • 35-50_f_w_h3_f4
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    I agree, "coming out" is not something I wrestle with anymore. There's something special about the mystery. In a way it has helped keep my relationships stronger because we don't have to announce it to anyone for judgement.

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    I often come out to those I feel I can trust just so I can gush about my girl friend XD

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      Yeah and sometimes to complain about them too to someone who will listen and support it helps to have another person's perspective on what went wrong in a relationship if it didn't work out.

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      I only do that in extreme cases though and with very select people, when I feel that the relationship is in danger and I'm too high strung to think clearly. But ya, support means everything.

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      I think being in the closet or no it`s a matter of privacy and everyone is free to do what he feels to do it. There are many ways to date closet gay people.

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    • 17-24_f_b_h2_f4
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      Agree too, Anon. Not being able to show affection in public or going out of your way to hide sucks. But things can work out if you have an understanding with each other.

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      It depends from person to person and relationship to relationship. If PDA is your thing then be with someone who is into it and if not then don't lol

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    If I will be in any relationship .. I will prefer to keep privacy

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