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Salut tout le monde

I know it has been a while since we had talked last time .. but the life could let us forget ourselves just like that!

anyway , today my questions will be about "FRIENDS & INTIMACY"

1- do you consider yourself a popular person?
2- how many "TRUE" friends you have?
3- did the know about your sexuality?
3a- (if the answer is YES) did you tell them or they just found out by themselves?!
3b- (if the answer is NO) why?
4- could you "SLEEP" with a friend? why?
5- could a friendship become a love story?
6- could you treat your EX as a friend?
7- if your friend in danger so as your lover , and you have only ONE chance to save ONE of them >> which ONE will you save? "Be Honest With Your Answer"

thanks for your time

and I will wait for your replies and feedback

XOXO .

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  • 17-24_m_b_h2_f4
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    y am i enjoying this ?? XDD
    anyway here goes :

    1- yep.
    2- there is nothing as a "true" or "fake" to me , its either ur a friend or not .
    3- abt 40% of my friends know now .
    3a- now that i think abt it , no one has confronted me , i just told the ones i felt safe to open up to .
    3b- dont need drama , i have enuff.
    4- no , cuz i have a "no friends" policy .
    5- yes , but i dont recommend it .
    6- yes .
    7- the one who needs (not deseves) more time to get his life on track .

    • 17-24_m_w_h4_f3
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      enjoy what exactly? , and after answering that question I hope u could explain the 7th answer .. c ya

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    • 17-24_m_b_h2_f4
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      enjoy answering this stuff XDDD i find it more fun than i thought itd be XD

      and abt 7 , ill save the one who needs to errmmmm ... lets say 'make his life better' before dying , not the one that 'deserves' this 2nd chance , the one who needs it more

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    • 17-24_m_w_h4_f3
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      wow! u r playing GOD now .. people out there watch out!!! the doom of (pi-chan) day is coming!!! LOOOL ^_^

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    • 17-24_m_b_h2_f4
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      well im in a situation to decide , ill play a whole pantheon if that what it takes XD
      but yeah , i think u should look out if Im god , cuz i wont accept temples made of stone .... thats too mainstream XDDDD

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    • 17-24_m_w_h4_f3
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      LOOOL .. HAVE A NICE DAY *_^

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  • 17-24_m_w_h3_f3
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    1- Nope, and I like it that way.
    2- I dont have true friends in the sense that they know my secrets and I can talk to them about anything, but the few really close friends I have, while I feel they might not accept me if I come out to them, I still like how things are with them if that makes any sense.
    3a- ^
    3b- Because they might be homophobic, but its not their fault. I cant put that kind of pressure on them, its not fair.
    4- Absolutely not, because I respect the boundaries we set for each other.
    5- Yeah, why not. If you both have the same feelings though, but I believe that both friends should be clear about their emotions (easier said than done).
    6- I dont have an ex yet lol but I dont think I would mind it.

    • 17-24_m_w_h4_f3
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      what about the 7th question? even though u don't have a BF but u could imagine the scenario! wait 4 ur reply .. thanx

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    • 17-24_m_w_h3_f3
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      I forgot about 7 sorry. Well its a really hard question so I'm gonna sound like an a-hole anyway lol, but my honest answer would be that I'll try to save both somehow, but I think it'll depend on who I was with longer, if for example we were friends for like 10 years and lovers for only 1 year, I'll save the friend.

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    • 17-24_m_w_h3_f3
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      It also depends on the relationship with both, whichever is stronger, that's a better answer. :) I hope I will never be in that situation though. :p

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    • 17-24_m_w_h4_f3
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      definitely u don't sound like a something-hole!!! coz u r pure n honest .. enjoy with ur sweet heart coz i'm sure u'll find a true love coz u deserve it .. thanx

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    • 17-24_m_w_h3_f3
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      Aww thank you so much! :D

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    • 17-24_m_w_h3_f3
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      You too btw :) you seem like a really nice person.

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    • 17-24_m_w_h4_f3
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      could I say (yes i'm a nice person!) or it will sound a little cocky!! thanx 4 the compliment

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    • 17-24_f_w_h1_f1
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      1- Yes And Im awesome and funny and awesome again
      2- None Cause I dont trust anyone
      3- Yes
      3a- Told Them
      4- Yes cause its fun and i like fun
      5- No Cause It will always be complicated in so many ways
      6- Only if the sex was great And i wanted more of it lol
      7- Neither Bitches put themselves in danger they deserve it

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  • 1. No. Maybe more so when I was a teenager.
    2. I would say two. Many others have disappointed or betrayed me in some way. I'm still friends with them but I won't trust them ever.
    3. Yes my closer circle of friends know this by now. I told half, and they told the rest.
    4. No, it would make things awkward, and I'm not sexually attracted to any of them.
    5. Yes. All love stories start with a friendship :)
    6. It depends on whether or not the break-up was mutual or if cheating and lying was involved, in that case no.
    7. It would depend on how long I've been with the lover, if more than 3 years and it's serious I think I would go with them but otherwise for the friend. I've always been more loyal to my lovers than my friends. I respect them both the same level however.

    • 17-24_m_w_h4_f3
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      u r so wise .. I could sense that from your logical and fully described answers .. hope you won't be betrayed or cheated on in the future ever again .. thanx

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      1. I'm blessed with many friends, not due to my own good qualities, but rather theirs.
      2. I have several dozen friends who I feel certain would take a bullet for me if given the option (and I for them) and who are sincere in their love and would earnestly do their very best to help me if I were in trouble, even making great sacrifice in the process.
      3a. Well I'm straight so I think most people assume as much (though I am pretty fabulous for a straight person)
      4. Only after marrying them.
      5. Pixar can make any love story good.
      6. Yes.
      7. If I had to make a choice of who to save, I would save the one who seems less at peace with death.

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    • 17-24_m_w_h4_f3
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      WOW! there is a str8 between us! all the lgbt people rescue with your lives! just kidding ^_^
      thanx 4 ur answers but I have couple of questions
      a- what does mean (pixar)?
      b- what do you mean by (the one who seems less at peace with death)?

      thanx my friend

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      a. Pixar makes movies, including some very heartwarming, simple love stories.
      b. As in, I would save the one that seemed most afraid to die.

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    • 17-24_m_w_h4_f3
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      thanx 4 ur replies dear friend :)

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      Also "run for your lives?" I'll have you know, sir...that's heterophobia! ;)

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  • 17-24_m_w_h4_f1
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    1- if u mean popular as having famous in college/school then no ..but I get along with almost anyone easily :D
    2-it depends on the definition actually ..on mine I would say around 7 friends till now .
    3-Yeah.
    3a- I told them .
    3b-no courage I guess :P
    4- yes I just wish I could .. because this will make our friendship more stronger (not in the naughty way XD).
    5-yes .but you better be sure it will be successful from the begging .
    6-ofcourse yes.
    7-okay .really hard question .you like this ,don’t you :D . umm ,I would go for the friend I guess ,but it depends on who needs me more - which one do I feel he values me more that what I meant . (Respect me ,listen to me ..etc)

    but ofc ,first I will try to save both

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  • 17-24_m_w_h4_f3
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    HELL YEAH! I like tough questions LOL, but I must say that I little bit shocked with your 6th answer
    why you sounded so sure?

    • 17-24_m_w_h4_f1
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      well maybe cuz we one day were having feelings to each other and like we kinda understand each other ..but unless he did something unforgivable ...XD then load the shotgun :P no talking to him again

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    • 17-24_m_w_h4_f3
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      good point of view my dear

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  • 25-34_m_w_h1_f4
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    1- nah
    2- maybe 4 but one is becoming more distant
    3- yes all of them
    3a- i told them & the response was "we knew that already" =P
    4- it depends on the level of attraction but no unless i dont mind losing them as a friend
    5- yes :)
    6- sure unless they did something real bad
    7- my friend, i think they would do the same for me

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      i know for real that you were honest with us, thanx for all these true answers, and it's so f#$%ing true that sex ruins the friendship

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  • 17-24_m_w_h3_f1
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    1- do you consider yourself a popular person?
    Kinda.

    2- how many "TRUE" friends you have?
    Only one

    3- did the know about your sexuality?
    Yes, She does know about me, I told her.

    4- could you "SLEEP" with a friend? why?
    Never.

    5- could a friendship become a love story?
    I'm going through this experience already.

    6- could you treat your EX as a friend?
    ye but it's not that easy though.

    7- if your friend in danger so as your lover , and you have only ONE chance to save ONE of them >> which ONE will you save?
    Friend.

    • 17-24_m_w_h4_f3
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      two questions for you my friend >> why you can't sleep with a friend? even though you said that friendship can be a love story!!!
      why you will save the friend not the lover?

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  • 17-24_m_w_h2_f3
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    1- do you consider yourself a popular person?
    Yep. popular by what am i achieved not because of i'm a bimbo

    2- how many "TRUE" friends you have?
    3 + my own family

    3- did the know about your sexuality?
    yes

    3a- (if the answer is YES) did you tell them or they just found out by themselves?!
    i told them and they found out. my friends even helped me hook up and my mom caught me having sex with my husband..lolz what a memory.. and she also sometimes find me a good boy to date with

    3b- (if the answer is NO) why?
    not related

    4- could you "SLEEP" with a friend? why?
    oh i slept with my friend indeed. we cuddled to the morning in one bed with he knowing i sleep in nude.

    5- could a friendship become a love story?
    depends, if you willing to push the envelope. but if you waited so long you will stuck in the friend zone.

    6- could you treat your EX as a friend?
    yeah i do it. except for the ex that DISAPPOINTS you which for me, go to hell you miserable SOB

    7- if your friend in danger so as your lover , and you have only ONE chance to save ONE of them >> which ONE will you save? "Be Honest With Your Answer"
    sorry for this question i will choose them both. i can't neglect one for the other. i'm sorry i just have a messiah complex.

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  • 17-24_m_w_h3_f1
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    1- not really.
    2- only one.
    3a-no he doesn't.
    3b-he hates gays SO much, but he knows that i slept with a guy before.
    4-it depends, if i am VERY VERY attracted.
    5-yup...happened to me, turns out bad at the end tho.
    6-yes i can.
    7-i can never choose between the one i love and my friend....i just can't live with the guilt so to be honest..either i save both or save none lol.

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  • 17-24_m_w_h3_f1
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    1- No
    2-10
    3-some of them do.
    3a- I did tell them.
    4- yes I could, we're friends, and that's it. but I wouldn't do anything naughty lol
    5-yes.
    6-some yep, and some, nuh.
    7-Friend, my lover wouldn't last forever, I'm the kind to usually be the one hurting, so yea, friend.

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  • 1- do you consider yourself a popular person?
    >> Nope
    2- how many "TRUE" friends you have?
    >> 2
    3- did the know about your sexuality?
    >> Nope
    3a- (if the answer is YES) did you tell them or they just found out by themselves?!
    3b- (if the answer is NO) why?
    >> Will lose them if I told then, they are true indeed, but this will happen
    4- could you "SLEEP" with a friend? why?
    >> Nope, but YES if that friend turns to be a lover, but as long as he is just a friend, then it's a NO
    5- could a friendship become a love story?
    >> Yup
    6- could you treat your EX as a friend?
    >> Yup
    7- if your friend in danger so as your lover , and you have only ONE chance to save ONE of them >> which ONE will you save? "Be Honest With Your Answer"
    >> My true friend for sure

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  • 17-24_f_f_h3_f3
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    1- do you consider yourself a popular person? Kinda
    2- how many "TRUE" friends you have? 4 maybe
    3- did they know about your sexuality? Two of them do
    3a- (if the answer is YES) did you tell them or they just found out by themselves?! One witnessed it :D and later me and him talked about it in front of the other one :D
    3b- (if the answer is NO) why? The 2 i didnt tell even though i know them for over 20 years it just never felt right to do so thats all
    4- could you "SLEEP" with a friend? why? nahh, im never really attracted to "friends" i know to only put friends in the friendzone :P
    5- could a friendship become a love story? nope
    6- could you treat your EX as a friend? Already do
    7- if your friend in danger so as your lover , and you have only ONE chance to save ONE of them >> which ONE will you save? "Be Honest With Your Answer" This will have to depend on so many things and a simple "this" or "that" would neither be a fair nor honest answer :)

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  • 17-24_m_b_h3_f3
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    Ok honesty mode on :

    1- Not really and i prefer not to be.
    2- None really , as i look back i never had a really close friend , just couple of friends that i can hang out with , ok maybe i have one , we were friends since kindergarten
    3- No , well i did try to tell him and gave him hints and told him that i have a secret but he's afraid he can't keep it .
    3b- His hesitation make may not sure if i can tell him.
    4- Well , i could sleep with him if he don't mind , it just might complicate our friendship , cause sex ( sorry i meant " SLEEPING ") always complicate things.
    5- well it can and it would be slightly better , cause he already know you and you feel comfortable with him , add that to intense feeling your having for one another and you may have a successful relationship.
    6- it depends , if you have a healthy break up , you may pull it through !! but still it would be really awkward not to be that intimate with him after you were.
    7- Well i hate this kind of questions , but i think i'll save my lover !!! cause without i'm i may actually die.

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    1- do you consider yourself a popular person?

    no
    2- how many "TRUE" friends you have?

    10

    3- did the know about your sexuality?

    yes

    3a- (if the answer is YES) did you tell them or they just found out by themselves?!

    i told them after 4 years

    3b- (if the answer is NO) why?
    4- could you "SLEEP" with a friend? why?

    yes , i already sleept with most of them

    5- could a friendship become a love story?

    may be
    6- could you treat your EX as a friend?

    yes

    7- if your friend in danger so as your lover , and you have only ONE chance to save ONE of them >> which ONE will you save? "Be Honest With Your Answe

    my lover

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f1
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    Post more of that

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  • Hi guyss i'm new around here but thought i should like get join these interesting stuff
    1- do you consider yourself a popular person?
    Noo not at all ;p

    2- how many "TRUE" friends you have
    umm...2

    3- did the know about your sexuality?
    yupp

    3a- (if the answer is YES) did you tell them or they just found out by themselves?!
    I told theem

    4- could you "SLEEP" with a friend? why?
    Nooo.... not sure it ruins the relationship between people

    5- could a friendship become a love story?
    i believe soo

    6- could you treat your EX as a friend?
    sure why not

    7- if your friend in danger so as your lover , and you have only ONE chance to save ONE of them >> which ONE will you save? "Be Honest With Your Answer"
    .......i would rather die instead of having to save one of them

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  • 1- do you consider yourself a popular person?
    ---- NO
    2- how many "TRUE" friends you have?
    --- FEW
    3- did the know about your sexuality?
    --- YES
    3a- (if the answer is YES) did you tell them or they just found out by themselves?!
    --- NO, MY FAMILY EXPLAINED TO ME AND THEY WERE THE ONE WHO TOLD ME THAT "CLOSET IS FOR CLOTHES"
    3b- (if the answer is NO) why?
    4- could you "SLEEP" with a friend? why?
    --- I DID ONCE. AND SINCE THEN WE ARE NO LONGER FRIENDS. SLEEPING WITH A FRIEND MIGHT TURN INTO SOME EMOTIONAL DISTURBANCE.
    5- could a friendship become a love story?
    --- DEFINITELY
    6- could you treat your EX as a friend?
    --- FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS, YES. ONCE A LOVER IT WILL ALWAYS BE A LOVER. NO EX WILL EVER BE FRIENDS WITH AN EX.
    7- if your friend in danger so as your lover , and you have only ONE chance to save ONE of them >> which ONE will you save?
    --- I'D RATHER DIE WITH BOTH THAN TO LIVE A LIFE MISSING A PART OF ME. KNOWING THAT I WAS HELPLESS TO SAVE HIM/HER IS NOT LIVING A LIFE AT ALL.

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  • 25-34_f_w_h1_f3
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    OK, I'm new to this, but it sounds like fun, so why not

    1- mmm, I think so
    2- 4
    3- three of them do
    3a- I told them
    3b- Because I wanted them to know the real me, and so I could act naturally around them and stop with all the lies and deceit
    4- yeah, and we did to find comfort in each other, though, it didn't end well
    5- yeah, why not?
    6- yes, if we are both mature enough, and our relationship didn't end in an ugly way
    7- tough question! the one who needs me to save her the most, in other words, she can't save herself whatsoever.

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    1- do you consider yourself a popular person? No
    2- how many "TRUE" friends you have? Two
    3- did the know about your sexuality? Yeah
    3a- (if the answer is YES) did you tell them or they just found out by themselves?! Told them
    3b- (if the answer is NO) why?
    4- could you "SLEEP" with a friend? why? Yes, sometimes it just happens
    5- could a friendship become a love story? No
    6- could you treat your EX as a friend? Yeah
    7- if your friend in danger so as your lover , and you have only ONE chance to save ONE of them >> which ONE will you save? "Be Honest With Your Answer" Friend

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