I am almost 23 years old and I am gay...well 95% gay. I felt like an outsider throughout my life to whichever group I interact with, family or friends. I even felt like an outsider around gay people. I kept feeling so until recently where my friends (straight) suggested that we would wax each other's backs and I was SHOOCK! I mean...if I have mentioned that to them I thought I would be kicked out of their lives forever. So now, my question is that...are we really excluded or "outsiders" or do we make ourselves feel that way. I guess it depends on the group you are around.