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hello everyone
well as you all know everyone say that being gay is prohibited in islam and some other religions
its hard for me to bein a islamic society and being gay or bi or i dont know what
i am really confused
because neither my family nor my friends will accept who i am
i dont know what to do
and i have never been in a relationship my whole life neither with boys nor with girls like relashinshiply virgin
im so confused please help
thanks.

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    i feel you camille! i think many of us do. its not easy. i also have a super religious family and if i come out, i will be ruined. their life will also be ruined by how disappointed they are at me, and how they will be seen by others in this society.

    the way i personally deal with it now is that if our family and friends don't accept us for who we are, we should at least be comfortable knowing that WE do. we accept us, and sometimes thats all that matters to live a fulfilled life.

    the confusion should be not in who you are but in how to deal with intolerant people around us. sadly that just means we need to lead a double life if we are to satisfy both worlds: our honest life and still being in the life of our families.

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