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so i'm 19y/o and bi but that is not it i also think that i might be trans because i don't feel like a girl at all nor I've ever felt like one. i always go towards more masculine clothes, i hate dresses and make up. im so confused, is there anyone in the same situation as me?

  • 12-16_f_a_h1_f4

    im in a very same situation. confused, alone, not sure, how do i know i am trans? and if so what do i do?? i cant be trans and survive in this society

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  • 17-24_m_a_h3_f3

    Don't worry Bi_Is_Fine. It is hard and frustrating to figure out what is your sexual identity and your sexual orientation because I know what it means to be in that situation.

    explore your reals self, see where do you fit most being identify as male or female. What gander you most attract to?

    Do this exercise to help you to find your real self, write don in a paper:

    I'm [the name you like to be called with] I'm seeing myself as a figure of ( the gander you comfortable with ) and I'm [ok/not ok] with my physical body.
    I like to be around [men/women/both] and it ok to have relationship with [men/women/both]

    For example, it goes like this in my case:
    I'm Adam I'm seeing myself as a figure of a man am I'm ok with my physical body. I like to be around men and it ok to have a relationship with men.
    That means I'm gay.
    I hope that will help you.

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  • 17-24_f_w_h1_f1

    Thanks for the advice Adam ☺ it helped !!!!

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  • 12-16_m_w_h3_f1

    can you help me for this web site

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  • 17-24_m_w_h2_f3

    there people like you don't be afraid ,you need to accept yourself and keep going

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  • 17-24_f_w_h2_f2

    I am , to be honest I always felt like I'm one of the guys and used to be such a tomboy , but now with all the nagging from family and friends, I am a bit less of a tomboy than before (on the outside) but it is still very noticeable. Somtimes I find myself thinking or reserching ways to transition and sometimes I'm just fine being a girl.
    It's very confusing but I learned to live with it and come to accept my thoughts and feelings as what they are , and that I don't need to act on them to be okay and that helped me a lot .

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  • Hi, you don't have to worry about who you are at all, you just have to follow your heart, no one can know who you really are better than you so keep loving yourself and give it some more space to breathe

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  • 17-24_m_w_h3_f3

    Sometimes I feel like you I feel like I hate guys stuff and I wanna put makeup and girly stuff but the sad thing is I never tried any of that.

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