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I've had a conversation with my best friend lately (whom i have a crush on) and we did a sort of Q&A and asked her a bunch of questions such as "do you feel comfortable around people from different sexuality?" She said: i have lots of gay friends and they're all kind. Then i asked her if she had ever wanted to kiss a girl, she said no. I then told her "what if i say 'i did' as an answer to my own question, how will you feel?" She became angry and was like "did you do it tho? Don't make me angry answer me. And tell me why did you want to kiss her, if you don't answer i won't talk to you for 5 days" when i told her i had a crush on the girl and she looked cute that day and stuff, she said " keep going, praise her, I'll read the messages when I'll log in tomorrow, goodnight"

Do you guys think she has a crush on me or maybe she's interested in me too? I need your opinion.

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  • 25-34_f_w_h3_f2
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    Seems to me that she's jealous! Did she say anything else since you had this conversation?

    Personally I'd think she has a crush back on you, but I don't want to read too much into it without continuing to explore her feelings without you sharing that yet, maybe she just needs time to figure it out?

    • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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      A year after this post, we stopped talking... but she camr and confessed to me but I'm not crushing on her anymore bc 1st, it's been a year since we've talked 2nd, she was the one who cut the ties so i moved on

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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    I talked to her today, she was cold with me, her replies were short and dry. I told her that I love her and i was just being honest bc I hate lying to her. She said "it's okay, I was rude with you sorry, I guess I was being a bit jealous" I reassured her that it's in the past.

    I once asked her "what am I to you?" And she replied "my best friend, my girlfriend, my wife, my
    everything" I thought that the "girlfriend & wife" part was part of our friendship bc we're so close together even the distance that separates us apart. But then I thought it over and over again, I think it has another meaning than friendship. Or maybe I am being delusional.

    • 17-24_f_b_h1_f2
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      youre not being delusional she is into you for sure. or else she wouldnt be possessive or jealous or call you these things. if it were up to me i would take that as a sign to open up about my crush on her and explore if the feeling is mutual. if not id be VERY SHOCKED. and maybe offended because it means she was playing with your feelings and causing these confusions.

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    • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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      I know. That's what I'm doing and i think it's working pretty well. Thank you so much for the advice.

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