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I am a student in university and as we all know, everyone likes to take care of themselves and so on. I made friends some are open-minded and some are not. There's a girl and a boy in our uni that i have a crush on. I told them about the guy but not about the girl. Whenever she walks by, i admire her from afar but in a sneaky way so no one would catch me. I thought i would get used to it but it's somewhat difficult in all honesty. What about you?

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    I fantasize about them from afar, I would never give them the impression that I am into them until I can be sure the feeling can be mutual. I'm extremely shy and it's very difficult for me to make the first move, it makes it easier for me to control myself in public but deep down I soooo wish I can be with them and touch them.

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    I unintentionally stare at them till they pass by LOL. I am sure one of my friends have noticed it but no one ever said anything really

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    I just try to take a glance and chat with them on any chance. Most people I've met were always friendly to me for being decent,but sadly I can never make it past the phase of being just colleagues or friends. After a while the thing I have for them just goes away,so I guess that's good.

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