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I'm in love with my best friend

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I have known her for a year now. We weren't that close at the beginning but as time passed we discovered that we had a lot of things in common. We started to talk more often on social media. We sometimes "role play" as we talk. She always tells me that she loves me and cares about me and that if she were a boy she would definitely marry me, she would go gay for me, she tells me that she loves me every min and i do the same. It's been a month since we're talking "every day" from 10am to 5am (bc it's ramadhan we stay up all night) nonstop. She advises me, she scolds me when i do silly things, she even gets jealous when i talk to people cheekily. Even though we live far away from each other, the bond gets stronger by time. I confessed to her as "you're my everything, i think about you everyday and i love you so much" she sent me a voice mail, expressing her feelings too. I fell for her. But I didn't actually "come out" to her as a bi nor did she. Should I do it or not?

  • 12-16_f_w_h1_f1

    I'm also in love with my best friend, so I know it's a risky situation. From what you said, it sounds like she feels the same way. I guess it depends on what you think her reaction would be. Would she she have a problem with you being bi/gay to begin with? Even if it turns out she doesn't feel the same, you need to know she won't out you or stop being friends or whatever. If her opinion on that is not a problem, I'd say go for it. Best of luck )

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  • 17-24_m_w_h2_f3

    life is a big game and it is an experience ,yes do it tell her what you feel ,and your reality ,if she really love you she will accepting u and staying with u good luck

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