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  • 25-34_f_w_h2_f3
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    Well technically you aren't Bi-SEXUAL. I think your title is the most accurate label for you. for short, you could tell others you're a Biromantic Lesbian, a Homoromantic Bisexual or Lesbian or Bisexual and then explain the details.

    I think it depends on what gender you lean more towards. If you lean more towards women, since you are attracted towards them both romantically and sexually, then it might be easier to identify as a lesbian. Especially if you socialize in Lesbian circles the most. Being Bisexual in these circles can have unfortunately a negative effect due to widespread Biphobia and Bisexual stereotypes.

    However, if you tend to socialize more in heterosexual circles or bisexual circles then it may be easier to identify as a Bisexual. However, be careful since once again, Biphobia exists here too, but you may also be expected to like or want threesomes or be pursued by heterosexual men who won't understand that you are a bisexual...that isn't bi-SEXUAL.

    Make any sense? I hope that helps.

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    forget the homoromantic bisexual - I think that's an oxymoron and won't make sense.

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      Yeahh i totally agree, id probably go with biromantic lesbian in the end,, but its a mouthful, i wanted to try and say like lesbian or bi

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      Like I said, it depends on what circles you socialize in. If around lesbians...lesbian is perfectly fine. Then as they get to know you more..later on you can be more specific. No pressure .

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    Its normal to differentiate between your romantic orientation and your sexual orientation, for example a lot of people has taken a part in a homosexual act yet identify themselves as straight and that is because humans tend to be more experimental in term of sexuality while being more conservative and close minded toward committed relations.

    I myself have lately come to peace with the difference between my sexuality and my emotions.

    Also try to imagine your emotions and sexuality as more flexible rather than a binary or a choice between two options.

    Sorry for the long comment. Love ☮

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