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A mental state of confusion

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Well..Hey guys, am a lesbian from Morocco and glad i just subscribed to this website

Am gonna share with you my story in order to get as many wise advices that would help me understand things more Clearly...well,there"s this girl i've been knowing since 3 years ago but we lost contact. We used to talk about anything really but since we're both autistic, the maintaining of a that 'friendship,' ,because for me i wasn't paying attention at that time and still having a hard time decodifying the subtile messages, so recently she was the one who offered to meet up after a couple of talks.

Since she wasnt feeling good, i accepted to meet her but as far as we sat, i felt the connection between us , id say that there was some flirtatiousness going around but again am still not sure since im autistic .. She"s a newly employee , so you can imagine the stress and tension , so talking to her on internet doesnt paying off, i dont know what to do..i already invited her over a drink but she still didnt respond to me yet .. Any thoughts guys? .

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  • Hi, welcome! I can imagine it must be hard to be able to figure out cues with autism. But I think it's cool that she's autistic too so she can probably relate! I would continue to play it cool and stick to the friendship route until you get to know her better. Normally I would advise you to look for signs that she's interested, but if she's autistic she might not be giving the typical signs, so I would say once you two get to know each other you might try a more direct approach... But be safe and don't reveal too much too soon. What are y'alls thoughts?

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      Thank you for your responses both of you.I appreciate it so much. Well, to update you guys its been almost a month now since i invinted her for a drink as friends , k dont wanna rush anything , in contrast id like to gett to know her better but she s with the avoidant behavior i guess ,i dont wanna assume anything , still got no responseMy birthday is coming during these days and she knows ,hopefully she'll talk to me eventhough im not hopeful to be honest!Anyway,thank you for for answering on my post.Peace and love

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  • I agree with femmeprincess, just be patient and take it slow. There is no rush, even if she is a lesbian too! Give her time to get to know you and for you to get to know her and take it from there. And we will be here for you throughout the way too

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    am on the silent mode , idont see how am gonna blow it in this case.Thank you for intercating with me

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