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i wonder how people discovered their same sex attraction?

for me, i just had such a strong desire to be with my neighbor, i felt such an attraction to spend time with him. get to know him. be close to him all the time. we were 15 then.

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  • 25-34_f_w_h3_f2
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    It was the same with me and some friends and classmates. It started in my early teens as well. Did your neighbor feel the same way or did you just have secret fantasies about him?

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  • 17-24_f_b_h1_f3
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    Awww, 15! I don't know what I would have done if I'd felt such confusing feelings so early. I was 18, and I kind of accidentally starting feeling same sex attraction. It was in college and she liked me so I thought what the hell, I'll like her too. More than 4 years later... ohhh boy. what the hell.

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  • 17-24_f_w_h2_f1
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    I was 15 too when I first felt the same sex attraction, not that I knew that it was attraction at the time which didn't help one bit and it was tor-ture. So confusing!

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f2
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    I was much younger than fifteen when I first started noticing the attraction I had for girls. It just felt so natural.

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  • 12-16_m_w_h4_f4
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    Uh emotional attractions started for Movie/Cartoon characters when i was a child that was before i even hit pubertyyy i realised i was gay and at that moment i thought it was terribly wrong x) because i thought i was the only one haha (Since my family doesnt bring up homosexuality much cos they dont want us to get influenced) i actually had crushes on some of these characters x) i also noticed i was different it wasnt that hard for me to find out

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  • 25-34_m_f_h3_f3
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    I was in high school and I was 14 and 15 he was reaaaaaaaaaaaaaally hot angelic face and athletic body hahaha I remember I used to wait next to his class just to see him we never talked he didn't know me I didn't know back then it was homosexuality because it was just natural you wanna hear the funny part now that it's 10 years later I looked him up on faccebook and aalll those feelings got to me again and oh yeah the son of a bitch just got hotter hahah but he's straight AF

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  • I was 14 but back then I didn't know I was attracted to her

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  • 25-34_f_w_h2_f3
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    I was 15 and in an all-girls school..enough said

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  • 17-24_f_b_h3_f1
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    For me it was a girl next to me in my class when i saw here the first time it was inexplicable a voice in me told me to talk to her to be close to her and that's what I did , we became friends We were getting closer after a Year I discovered that she has the same feeling as me , it was the perfect love to much perfect iwas the moooooooost happier person in the world but after 5 months together she just disappeared and 10 months after she reappeared in my life like a strength person i know she is not .. I was hurt i still have feelings for her but i accept her choice

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  • 12-16_m_w_h4_f1
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    I always knew i was different from most boys when i was around 5 and as i grew the feeling of being different grew with me, but the first time i ever felt attracted to someone, i was around 14 and he was a an exchange student who was English he looked like a young Jude Law with James Mcavoy big blue eyes , i felt so attracted to him and he was very kind and friendly, i played the violin at school so i got to spend as much time as i could with him playing music as he also played the Cello, of course i was a kid back then and i also kept it all to my self, but when he left the school the next year i was devastated..

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