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Hello everyone,
It was good finding an LGBT community.
I am a gay male , i have always been attracted to other males,ever since i was a little boy, i have been always struggling because of my feelings i even tried to kill myself twice before , it's never easy being a gay guy in Egypt or the Arab world in general.
Due to my continuous sadness i came out to my mom, she did not snap or throw me out, she tried to "fix" me , she sent me to 2 therapists and a venereologist.
Ofc these stuff did not work.
i came to the point of accepting myself or rather said accepting my fate although i hope i could find a good guy to live with, married and adopt a baby .
i came out to some of my friends and they were fine with it and accepted me
Gay community in here is tough people are just looking for sex it is rare to find someone who wants a love relationship.
i tried to look for this perfect man til i gave up but now i am trying to get back to dating
most guys i been with all just want sex they slept with me and then left
i do not know what life has for me i am just hopping for a happy end.

  • 17-24_m_w_h3_f3

    Hey I'd like to contact you, sure if you like

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    Hello Snow, I would love to chat with you if you're willing?

    • 12-16_m_f_h1_f1

      شئ رائع ان يكون لك اصدقاء تحبهم ويحبوك في اطار الانسانيه اكتر من العلاقة الجنسيه ومع عمق الصداقة
      وكل منا يفهم الاخر يأتى الجنس مع تفعيل الحب بكل ارياحيه وتشعرفيمن يمتطيك بالحب قبل الجنس
      وتكون في منتهى السعادة بحب وجنس دائم

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  • Hey there.

    I'm kinda in the same situation, except I don't live in the Middle East. This community is inclusive to everyone in the Middle East so I don't usually comment. I don't want to impose on any territory, but there are people out there that would love to be in an actual relationship.

    Yeah, trust me. A lot of people don't even know what they are. And a lot of people are just looking for sex. But like me, there's also a lot of people looking for love. I know you will find it. I believe in that so don't give up, okay?

    I'm rooting for you.

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    Hey, I'm facing the same problem over here. I would really love to have a boyfriend some day, or even meet a gay guy in person cuz I'd really love to feel that I'm not alone. Please try to contact me on my kik account: bobienwood

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  • 25-34_f_w_h2_f3

    Hello snow,

    I think you've just described literally every relationship I've ever been in. I'm so sorry for how your mother reacted, the good thing is that you actually came out stronger. I'm just like you and for all I know the person I'm supposed to be with is somewhere out there just as frustrated as I am. You just have to hang in there a little while longer and hopefully you'll find that special someone.
    I understand that hope can be tiresome, but it's also what keeps us going.

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  • 25-34_m_f_h3_f3

    Same here buddy except I live in Morocco

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    Hey! I know how pretty tough the situation here in Egypt,especially that every gay chatting/meeting platform is mainly used for hookups,but I've always had faith that someday I'll find someone. Things DO get better,just stay positive and love yourself. We're all in this together,so we better hold on to each other :-)

    I wish you the best of luck xoxo

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