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I'm afraid & hate my life

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Hi , I'm new here , it was nice to know that I'm not alone in our community, I really dunno what to say or how to express my feelings , but all I can say is that I'm afraid n I really start to hate my life ( honestly I'm even afraid to post that ) , feeling so lonely while I'm really not alone.

I wish if I can make some new friends that can understand me. .

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  • Hi! I'm so sorry you're feeling bad. You're right, you're not alone. But I now sometimes it feels like you are. Just remember there are so many others just like you and we are really glad you are here! Sending hugs.

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      Thanks for your comment , I always try to remember that there are so many others like me so I can stay positive , but at last I remember that It's not easy to reach any of them , I'm glad I found this website to can be in touch with ppl like me. Xoxo.

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    sorry you feel this way but it is not this hard if you just believe in yourself everything will be just fine and be patient everything comes at its time . dont rush into things and stick with ppl in ur circle of age if u r in college keep an open eye u will find someone it wont be fast but it could happen if u r at work then stay preserved but keep an open again just be patient

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    im so sorry you feel this way! but loneliness shouldnt make you hate your life. most of us here feel lonely all the time. sometimes even when we are surrounded by friends, because a lot of us are closeted in some social circles. its tough but put yourself out there!! its the only way to find good friends. dont be shy and dont hide from the world.

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  • i'm sorry that you feel this way , but believe me i've been there feeling lonely even though i wasn't alone ! you know what it's not that bad, for me ,been this way gave me courage to came out and reach a better place ! just know we are here fo you if you ever need to talk

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      I'm glad you could came out , but you know it's not that easy to can do the same , I can imagine what may happen if I came out n that's why I'll nvr do that I think. I hope things ll be better soon , thank you so much

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    • i use to say the same thing , i couldn't see my self prouncing the words to my dad and mom , i thought i'm gonna have a heart attack before i ever can do that , but i did , and i paid the price high for it ! but not for a second i regret it never ! stay strong after all it's a long and slow process

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      I feel sorry for what u feel, most of us in the middle east feel that kind of loneliness, because we can't be our real selves with others no matter how close they are so we feel afraid of the homophobic society we live in.How ever don't let that affect ur confidence as an openminded girl differs from others in a unique way. Yesterday i was thinking coming out to my best friend who thinks the homosexuality is an illness, i tried to discuss but after a while i feel afraid too so i surf the site to feel strong again because of the wonderful people supporting each other that give me hope and encourage me. So plz don't hate ur self ever to be unique ,we all here for u, trust your inner beauty and u will achieve what ever u want ,big hug

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    hey, i don't know actually how you feel but i do know that the word "sorry" won't help, i'm just like you now, can't find a reason to stay alive or to do anything in my life but fuck it i got nothing to lose, i do stupid things and i do what i want and i'm not looking forward to please someone from people around me, they won't payback.
    if you got someone or something that makes you happy in your life just try your best not to lose it. and don't waste your time on something you know you won't change, do whatever you want and don't care about people impressions
    (i'm also new here and I've got a good feeling about this place)

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