This has been an issue that's always coming right at the beginning of any chat ,what's your label?butch,femme or maybe a tomboy.
I remember talking to that girl who asked me the same question and there was a long discussion between me and her about labels,i don't understand why we tend to limit ourselves to just a label .
That girl used to tell me that two girls who label themselves as butch can't be together but two femmes it's ok,what gave her the right to say this ,i don't know
it's like we are acting like the relationships between men and women,one has to be the man in the relationship and the other the woman.
what if i don't feel myself neither this or that i mean butch or femme,what if i am inbetween and i can't give myself a label,why does it matter for people to label themselves?
does it make them feel more secure?more accepted?i don't know really and i don't understand the whole label thing