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Why lying is becoming the new trend in our community?

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Hello there ,

the reason why i am writing about this topic is because it became a very popular trend in our community.

To make myself more clear,when we start talking to someone online and we find that there r lots of things in common ,then we start talking over the phone and everything is going so well and we reach the point of wanting to meet each other,that's when things start to take a different turn and it is like there is no chemistry at all and we r left with a totally different character and personality than the character we talked previously with and we become like who the hell we have been talking to ,it is not that person at all

i don't know why this happens ,that's why i am writing this ,maybe someone who has been in a similar situation can enlight me concerning this
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  • 35-50_f_b_h1_f1
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    Maybe because we want to be accepted, maybe because we are alone and desperate to feel that we are admired, even tho we know we are pretending to be with someone we are not, i have a long list of reasons why lying is becoming the new trend, but to be honest lying is part of being who you are, i mean not being out, faking who you are all the time, acting/playing roles, in front of family, friends, work, society, you are lying and acting all the time, so you forget who you are and along the way your masks become your true self. i did have some situations of this kind some turned out fine at the end, others we had to part.
    Fear of rejection is another factor, high expectations.

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    I totally agree with u

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  • 35-50_f_b_h1_f1
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  • 35-50_f_f_h1_f2
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    Yes Nadine ,masks become our true self

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  • 35-50_f_b_h1_f1
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    Yes it is, and I am sure that there's so many wants to take them off, no one like it behind them.

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    I totally agree with u , yes we all hoping to take off our masks ,but is it easy to do so ,even chatting in the internet is kind of hiding behind mask,you just cant be yourself.

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    Well, I can't say that chatting online is a kind of wearing a mask, how else you can talk with other people and get to know them, plus you are living in a homophobic country, hiding yourself for your own safety doesn't count for me as hiding or lying, but personating someone you are not is something, so you will never be certain until you meet or talk with this person in reality.
    Friends are made not found, it's through time, situations, actions to know who that person is. So I think it's like a try outs you can win and you can lose.

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