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How to tell if another lady is interested or just being friendly?

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Hi all,

I posted this a year ago https://ahwaa.org/topics/973 Well she did leave for a few months and we kept in touch. And then she came back and is working else where. We met several times and I like her more than I did before. I know she likes me but I am not sure if it's the same way that I like her. Like sometimes when I am checking a guy out she gets annoyed, when I ask her why she's angry she just says that it's not nice to check people out Or when I say something nice about another friend, suddenly she thinks that person is horrible and she just doesn't like them anymore.

And sometimes she becomes so cool and doesn't answer my texts or calls for a while yet when I meet her she gets this look in her eyes that makes forgive her for not answering back.

I really want to be with her but I don't know how to approach her and I am also afraid that she doesn't feel this way about me and I will just embarrass myself and ruin our friendship. So to all you people out there who have been in this situation, how do I know if she feels the same way? I can't talk to her about it, because it's a very heavy topic and I don't want to lose her.

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  • drop hints about ur feelings .. see hw she reacts to touching .. try to talk to her about LGBT community in general .. if shes open minded enough to accept that type of topix .. then there is a higher percentage she will accept you .. after that you can tell her hw u feel about her

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  • 25-34_f_b_h3_f3
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    Thanks for your advice Amira_S.. We have talked about LGBT topics and she's pretty open minded about it, I was kind of surprised. About the touching though, I get uncomfortable when she touches me, so I don't think I can pull off touching her in any way with out giving myself away.

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      About the LGBT thing..you should talk to her more about lesbians in particular because some girls pretend to be so open minded and have gay guy friends then all of a sudden she's like "ew, lesbians shouldn't even get near me"

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    You've got a point skyestone

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