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No Friends for Homosexuals

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So I came out to all my friends a long time ago, some left and some stayed and supported.
But it didn't end there ..
The few who stayed, also left.
They said they support me and I should feel safe around them and just "be myself". So I did.
And it was a mistake.
They didn't keep their words, they said "we thought we can adopt to it because we love you no matter what, but we actually can't".
So, I am alone now, 100% alone, for being gay, not for being a bad friend, not for being a bad human being .. for being gay.

Tim.

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  • 17-24_m_w_h4_f3
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    Quick advise Tim. Who ever left you is their lost its not yours. If they leave you because of who you are Its means they are not True Friend at all. A True Friend accept you for who you are and what you do. It was happen that they never understand you at all but judging you at the end. Still dont stop your life there because of them but look forward to the future. Your not alone. You have us here in ahwaa to give you support if you need. We are not together but our hearts shout in one word.

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  • 25-34_m_f_h4_f4
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    I totally understand you, but still better said than done. I am trying, really trying to move on, and still don't know how. I will be honest with you, it really really hurts.

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    it hurts indeed, but they were pseudo friends and not for real, I'm sorry for saying that but at least now you know. Find others, real good ones, they are rare, but they are there, and you'll get over it, it's going to hurt and take time, but eventually, it will fade away. I don't know you...but I'm here for you if you wanna talk, please consider me as a new friend

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  • 25-34_m_f_h4_f4
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    Omg thank you you made me cry.

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  • 12-16_m_w_h3_f1
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    Same problem here

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  • 17-24_f_w_h2_f1
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    They lost you! And Crimson is right. It's best you found out now just how good of friends they were. We're here for you and I really do hope that you find friends IRL who show what friendship is really about. I'm sorry you lost your friends but really, you can do a lot better.

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