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Why do gay relationships finish so quickly, leaving deep scars?

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When we first met, there was admiration between us, as for me, my feelings quickly run deeper towards him, we used to meet twice a week. our relationship lasted for two months , the thing I was so afraid of every time i thought of him came up finally. I didn't want things to end this way between us, it was sudden, even shocking for me! I never thought he can as easily let go of this love as this! I tried to call him many time in vain, apparently, he did change his phone number to erase me completely from his life... Generally I never lived a very long gay relationship with someone i fell in love with, even if there seems an avalanche of sweet feelings shared between us at the start, we soon break up, the worst of all, it often came from the other side. .

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  • 25-34_f_w_h3_f2
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    I had these experiences before and I think this tends to happen in all relationships regardless if it's gay or not Hope you meet the right person at some point. You deserve someone who loves you the same way you love them! And when that doesn't happen ... it's really painful. Stay strong and be patient for the right person to come along and sweep you off your feet

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  • 25-34_m_w_h1_f4
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    ohhh been there too. happened to me often. thats why i decided to take a break from all relationships now until i grew up a bit and understand why people do this. i take it so personally when people reject me and i become depressed. its the worst. i feel for you buddy.

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  • 17-24_m_w_h1_f4
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    Thanks , As time went on I realized that I was wrong about some things people did , its okay dudes

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  • 25-34_m_f_h4_f4
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    2 months!! The longest relationship I had lasted 4 days. You meet someone, you invest in them, share your feelings, then you hit one of 2 walls, they are only thinking about sex, or their homosexual feelings are overwhelming to them and they take the easy way out.

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      @Tim i can say that he in UAE you must expect like that. People just want to show their homosexual feelings after that they realize it was a mistake or they know someone better than you. You will be forgotten like ashes that blew by the wind.

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    Wait for the One...

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  • 17-24_m_w_h2_f3
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    lol i'm 19 and i feel like u so i decide to stop talking and searching for gays and staying alone forever,my heart is broken

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