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my sufering in arabic world

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I live in an Arabic country I'm gay & no one from my family knows that. They think I'm just girlish. I always face insults at home & outside & beating some day. I tried to suicide many times, but I couldn't. I need a solution please because I lost my mind & feel like an insect that must be squished. What do I do?

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  • This must be really hard for you and I'm sure it feels really lonely. I'm the only son in the family and they're always expecting me to get married and still none of them know that I'm gay. I also faced bullying at school and after that also at work. The only thing that helped me is the hope that things will get better and the knowledge that I had to get tougher, emotionally and psychologically. Suicide is not an answer at all! It will only cause more pain and suffering to the family that loves you even though they don't know you're gay yet. Please don't feel alone because most young gay people feel this way.

    What are the thoughts that make you happy? What are your hopes in this life?

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      thanks alot for caring ur so cute & u like to help poeple i pray that god be in ur side & that things get better to every one of us & u hope u get ride of suffering & find ur soul mate & live in europe to be happy .ill not forget u in my prayers thanks alot

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  • 17-24_m_w_h4_f4
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    honey suicide is not a solution u have to see the world from the great side not the black side, all i am going to say to you is one word as an advice : PATIENCE , patience is all

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      thanks alot for ur advice .the prblem is that we reach a dead line& like oum kalthoum say الصبر له حدود patience got a limmit & i hope give us more reserve ill pray for that for me & u & all of us may god be with us & thanks friend

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    • listen , this is the truth i dunno where you live but in arabic countries , it ain't getting better it's truth trust me , arans are too stupid to develope , so look always to the great side ! you are healthy and smart you speak 2 languages maybe 3 i don't know u anyways the point , never come out to your family , keep your everything a secret , and maybe this is wierd but to feel good watch gay porn XD and masturbate and after you cum you'll forget all about the suffring , take care of yourself , and don't care about others , take care of your skin , your hair , your body and never forget secretly , when i was 14 i didn't take care of myself i looked ugly but now im 17 i straighten my hair everyday but i don't tell anyone ! i take care of my skin and i don't tell anyone , i brush my teeth 3 times , i brush my eyebrows i use for them a pen to make em dark , i wouldn't lie i look beautiful and cute now , i have confidence , i dress fashionable , i look flawless and guess what ? nobody knows that i do all that to reach that beauty , they think that i was born like that ,and they think if i take care of my skin im girlish ext...all im sayin' is , live your life alone for a time even you and your family in the same house , take care of yourself and tell nobody . , and be yourself and don't care of what others say , never stay quite when they mock of you , mock them ; and forget them ; don't think too much , be cold blooded ... i really hope you understand what i mean cuz WE arab gays understand each others situation

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      thanks my dear angel u know belive me we think like each other & thanks for ur complements & advices seriously ur so sweet & u like to help poeple god protect u. im from algeria & im 21 & jais une licence .& this the only hope that im holding tie.& i hope u to.my problem is that im to much controlled by my opsseed violance fother & i cant even clean my face with pure active . u know what i do i wake up early to do what i want hhhhhhh & about gay porn i hide with pc under the bed at 3 of the morning & my heart race & i feel so happy when i finish . about bulling & mocking im trying to unswer them when i fell so angry but with reason & their religion & they dont deserve to unswer them really this is what they want to give them importance & god may give us patianceas u said if god will . love u bro xoxo & really thanks im so happy to know that there is someone who cares about me & god be always in ur side & bless u dear take care of ur self .

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f3
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    Hey man..You can message me if you want to talk about it. I'm also a lesbian in Egypt and it's REALLY difficult for me but I got the hang of it. I can help you if you wish. Message me

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    hi sis thanks alot for ur help it realy means alot to me god bless u.& we are friends now .sis ill pray for u .thanks sincerly & please dont forget me

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  • 17-24_m_b_h3_f3
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    Ok bottom line,, just don't kill ur self

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    oh no it must be really hard for you and I'm sure it feels really lonely

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  • 25-34_m_f_h4_f4
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    Look, I am gay and I've been harassed sexually and verbally, called names and lost so many people in the process of being who I really am. I feel what you feel exactly. That's why I am here, to know people, talk about it, share. So please don't harm yourself. You are a beautiful human being. I am here for you.

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      thanks tim .i really love ur name like my fav actor tim alhassan hhhh.thanks alot dear im fine but i dont know if i can stand an other years .hope god be in my side & urs too .& thanks for the complement ur most sensible helpfull man .me too iv been hurt sexually & verbally hhhhhh each minute .....however thanks dear so much

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