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Having sex for fun or making love and be in a romantic relationship?

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Most of people are too broken and insecure to start and trust any new relationship, cause simply something is missing since they are no longer with their beloved ones. But are we gonna let this affect on us for the rest of our lives? I think that only your thoughts made you miserable as shit! But if you get the fuck out and started knowing new people, you can do as fine as it gets. just always remember that you're here in life to enjoy it ! No one can breaks your heart! stop being so dramatic.. we all had that one who made our life sounds like HELL and we will NEVER get over our memories we had with then and the feelings we used to share and it's totally normal but it doesn't mean that you step back and be miserable. Live Laugh and Love.

Just ACCEPT IT.

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  • 17-24_m_b_h4_f3
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    I see your point
    Just move on and be happy

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  • 17-24_m_b_h4_f3
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    And i would choose funny and good sex

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  • 17-24_f_w_h1_f4
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    I have never been in a relationship nor did I have sex ever but if I want to start having sex I'll only do it with the person I love and already established a deep loving relationship with . maybe it won't last forever and I might lose that person but I can still love again and fix my mistakes. I wouldn't be into casual "fun" sex since it's something very intimate to me.

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  • Truth! Hooray for getting back out there after your heart is broken.

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  • 17-24_f_w_h2_f1
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    I don't think there's anything wrong with casual sex, as long as you are doing it responsibly and not in a self-damaging manner. And yea, you can't let heartbreak keep you down because that just proves that that was the wrong person and you won't find the right person if you're unwilling to give it a proper chance again.

    But these things take time and no point in rushing before you're ready. No shame in waiting to discover yourself again and giving yourself time to grieve and move on. I feel like we love everyone differently, so maybe you won't love anyone else the way you did that last person but you will love again, whether it's less or more, it will be completely different.

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