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  • i think i have always been gay at first it didn't worry me that much i was a child and i had feelings that felt normal, as a teenager i described it as an admiration of the "female form" if that's how i can say it, it took me some time to accept the term gay or lesbian

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    I thinks that i've always been attracted to girls,but i really realized that gay thing when I was about 13.
    realized the homophobia too...
    It wasn't easy..I tried to talk about it with my mum,but she didn't understand,and she maked me feel like full of shit.
    I harmed my self,I hated my self.
    But finally I met an amazing girl,who surrounded me with her love for a year,andmaked me proud of being a lesbian.

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  • 17-24_f_w_h1_f2
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    I've always known I was gay, my first crush was a 4 years old girl, she was a classmate, always chared with her my food, toys, drawing...never thought it was wrong or something, it was like the right feeling, the right thing to do, and still being gay is the most normal, healthy state of me, and I'm proud of it

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    you were so young mine was 8 and it was with my teacher.. weird i know but she was cute and prefer me than the other kids.

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  • for me, it wasn't really one big moment of realization as much as it was an accumulation of experiences throughout my life and starting from my chidlhood. I remember my first crush ever was on a 5th grader girl when I was in grade 1, later on I also developed crushed on boys. So, I guess from the beginning I always thought of both genders as eligible for romance XD

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  • 17-24_m_w_h3_f3
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    since the very beginning I always knew that I was different like I never liked football like the other kids I was always interested in Arts and stuff like that :P and I remember when I was 13 every time an advertisement shows up on tv of mens shampoo or a perfume it just steels my attention haha

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  • 17-24_f_w_h1_f4
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    I was 16 I fell in love with my girl best friend and I loved watching Lesbian TV Shows more than Straight couple I guess lol.

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  • I was 10 when I started asking "What is a Tomboy?" because my classmates were calling me tomboy.
    I talked to my teacher about it.. and she explained her best way for me to understand. I was 8 when I first had a crush on a girl..
    I've always trade my dolls for toy guns Hahahaha!
    I was 15 when I talked to my mom.. that was the time I was sure that I am gay. Her reaction was
    "It's okay..We all know.." and later asking me "Where is your gf?" Lmao

    To make it short, my family knew .. All along... :$

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  • 25-34_f_w_h1_f4
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    Wow... Samesinnerfromspace- you're lucky for the acceptance.

    Love th hot teacher crushes beingme2012 and everyone lol...

    Shutupyourmouse- I agree entirely lol. Large appetite for life, why curb it by specialising in one gender alone eheh

    I think I've always levitated towards tomboy'sh girls and love the feminine form.. But... Though I love men, women are enticing. Appreciating a hot person is one thing but being attracted to them is entirely another.

    It was last year I found myself being madly attracted to a girl and hence I discovered another side to myself

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f2
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    I always had a preference for girls. Even when I was in kindergarten I fancied most of the girls who where looking after me and playing with me.
    I remember when I talked with my best friend, at the age of 5-7, about the cute male friend of our older brothers. Later I confessed her that I also like his big sister, it was my very first coming out! Well, she made fun of me But its kind of funny looking back and those memories made me even more confident about my sexuality and helped me accepting, especially in my teenage years.

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      omg can't imagine her reaction to smth like that but yeah i agree with u that our experiences as children helped us put the peaces together when we were older and it all make sense right now !!

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  • 17-24_f_w_h1_f4
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    well, *processing*, uh! i think i've been always a lesbian :/ i never had an eye for guys.. for the accepting part.. i didn't accept it till high school ( that was 5 years ago ) ..thats it

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  • 17-24_f_w_h2_f1
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    I was a late bloomer. The possibility of homosexuality didn't even occur to me till I saw that TATU video. I was having these intense crushes on girls and writing them off as really weird and unexplained friendships. I'd fantasize about girls and write that off as a fetish lol. So deep in denial it took me till I was in my 20s and friends who happened to be gay to finally get me to accept my sexuality.

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  • lesbianism found out i'm a lesbian and it embraced my soul before i was been born.

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