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It breaks my heart!

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It breaks my heart to just feel that so many of us hate ourselves. I am just afraid to reach down there and feel all the intensity. I love someone. I have made mistakes. I begged him to stay. I still do. And the main reason is that we didnt love ourselves. it breaks my heart. I know I did mistakes. but I still hope to be with him. I am in so much pain. Can anyone help me?

  • I'm so sorry you're in pain. I hope time has helped heal the wounds. You're right so many of us are unable to have healthy fulfilling relationships because of the limiting self-hate we've internalized. It's really sad. But I also think there's hope. Don't be too hard on yourself. We all make mistakes. Look at yourself with compassion, the way you would look at a friend or younger siblings. Be gentle with yourself. You are worthy of love. Hope you're doing better!

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