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Hello again, So i was thinking now that i dont want to be in a relationship and that coming out is not the problem anymore ( its actually the lack of lesbos ) I want to make friends, with people who are just like me and I also Would die if I found a Gay Friends Cause im so uncomfortable with my guy friends. im bored and dont know what to say so thats it. .

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  • hi myra.. no there isn't a "lack of lesbos" .. didn't find one doesn't mean there is a lack.. and we all here your friends Myra , all the LGBTQ sphere here are friends .. anyway .. where are you from ?

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    why are you so uncomfortable with your guy friends? is it because you can't be yourself around them?

    even if you dont find yourself being around gay friends whom you could trust and who are similar, you could still find many straight friends who are LGBT allies and who accept and love us too. so dont limit yourself to any type of community we can belong anywhere if we make an effort.

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    im from cairo n skyflake im a really private kind of person and i think im a lil bit antisocial so i dont really get along well with my friends and i dont like trusting people cause ive been let down alot and its just so sad for me im 20 years old and i never had like a bestfriend which counts against me and many thinks that its weird

    • we all here your friend Anon ..

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      Skyflake...........i agree with u.......we have accept all people to be our friends......friendships is very good in our life.......help us.....join us in our happiness or sadness.....we can not life alone in this world......i am happy because i am gay...why not happy........be sure that u r not different....we all r the same human

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      Thts so weird im 20 and I never had a bestfriend either lol

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    Hey Myra, I hope you'll be able to find many like-minded friends here I can understand what you say about not trusting people easily, though, trust is the basis of friendship. So, I think you'll always have to take chances and see how things will work out in the end.

    Skyflake, I'm with you that we shouldn't limit ourselves in our relationship with others; though, I've yet to meet a straight friend who is truly supportive of us; I mean, most of my friends are straight and after I came out to them, they just ignored that part of my life, and never opened the subject again, and when I do, they are silent. So, to a limit, you can be truly free with your kind only. I know I'm being judgmental here, but, well, the whole society is depressive and frustrating in Egypt!

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    It's normal for lesbians to search for gay friends and vice versa.

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      I AGREE U MidoCute...........GAYS AND LESBIANS SHOULD BE REAL FRIENDS............BOTH SAME........LOVE SAME TYPE.........WHAT THE PROBLEM IF WE WANT JUST FRIENDSHIPS NOT SEX RELATIONS

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