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Can you recouncile faith and sexuality?

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There are growing number of discussion that's growing on and many such arguments leads that one can be gay and muslim.

Some of us LGBT individuals rather than be happy about it we actually starts to become more afriad. OMG almost ALL the past jurist agreed that homosexuality is a sin so HOW ON EARTH do you expect me to say that it is ok be muslim and act out my feelings on a same sex partner?

Yes. I will not be surprised if you are actually afraid. And I think that is because we are guilty about our own desires. Did we choose this desires? I dont even remember? I simply remember being attracted to dudes. Gawd oh how I crave misery by choosing such desires. To those jurist who things its a choice....please check your definitions.

For long I have ruminated on how can I be a muslim and still be able to have a same sex partner?

I will not go into the theological argument here but I would like to talk about issues that and give you guys a critical point of view that are often used to make you feel guilty, would your inner child and turn you into a monster. Believe me guys....your inner child...your true self WILL continue to torment you untill you are forced to accept the truth about your self.

1. Science has concluded that there are certain genetic components in our body that leads to what type of addiction we will most likely to go for such as alchoholism. Ok. So if you say homosexuality is genetic, and alchohol is clearly haram...genetics is not your choice...so it does not matter.....alchohol is haram!
Well...true.....but having genetic components that predicts on which addiction you are most likely to cling onto DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO ALCHOHOL. it simply means if you go through a process of training to abuse alchohol your body WILL react to it and grow dependance on it giving you devastating consequences. Homosexuality on the other hand does not require training. Its a need. Alchoholism is not a need.

2. Some gentic disease such as diabetes stays with us for a life time. It has no cure. Homosexuality has no cure as well. its simply something you may need to bear. But is diabetes and homosexuality comparable? Well the medical associations that consider diabetes to be pathological does not consider homosexuality to be as such. Not convinced? Well diabetes has a manageable treatments that helps us to lead a healthy life but does homosexuality has any such things? Again it is not considered a disease! Can we still be healthy if we cannot exercise our sexuality? Hmmm lets just look into the gay men who got married...down low...HIV..coming out late and devastating their wives lives ( Oh bravo straight community you are successful to victimize members of your own straight individuals...I must give a clap).

So now I would like to answer any queries that you may have and any questions that you would like to ask..Please don't be afraid. Trust me to give you informed responses and leave to judge it freely for yourself. .

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  • 25-34_m_f_h4_f4
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    ِAmazing article, I really enjoyed it. You clearly gave it so much thought.
    I believe homosexuality "should not" be a sin, I am now scientifically convinced its genetic, a whole documentary on discovery channel proved that, scientists located the homosexual gene. So I was created that way, I was born gay, that simple.
    I tried to reconcile faith and homosexuality, I went deep into Islam, Judaism and Christianity, and what I found was astonishingly and superbly insane.
    God is violent, jealous, unfair and a psychotic being, sorry to disturb you, but the 3 religions contradict themselves and full of fairy tales.
    So am I worried? Am I at risk?
    Of course I am, BUT if a judgement day is true, I will stand before the creator and simply tell him "You made me the way I am, you can't judge me"
    I am happy with my conclusion and always open for new opinions

    • 17-24_m_b_h3_f3
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      thank you so much tim. I am sad to hear that you fine God in Islam to be violent. I hope you wud give a critical thought about religion more and reach a conclusion. Fell free to contact me in pm here and we can continue any discussion u like.

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    • 25-34_m_f_h4_f4
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      I would to continue our discussion on pm

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    • 17-24_m_b_h3_f3
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      Please kindly send me a pm regarding your question. We shall continue our discussion from there.

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