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Are you HOMOSEXUAL by nature or is something you've chosen?

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I really really really wonder. Were we born to be gays & lesbians or is it our urge?
If it's a controlled thing why didn't we pick to be straight?
Some of us are suffering out there.
And if it's an "illness" is there any cure for it?
*mind fucked* .

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  • 17-24_f_f_h3_f3
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    I would love very much to meet 1 person that has "chosen" to be gay, like seriously please

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  • 51-65_m_b_h3_f1
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    If it's a joke, it's decidedly a bad one! How, not just why, would anyone choose to be homosexual? Besides, it's as easy (NOT) for a hetero to become homo as the other way round! Nobody CAN, let alone WOULD, be able to make the switch.

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  • This is a very odd question, nobody just wakes up one day and decides to be gay.
    There are many factors contributing to this. Genetic, psychological and environmental factors. For example a guy can be born with genetic predisposition to become gay, but because of environmental and psychological factors he lives a heterosexual life instead.
    And also a lesbian girl doesn't necessarily has to have genetic predisposition, but she becomes gay due to psychological factors, and so on.
    So it's not a decision that someone makes, it's a combination of everything in that person's life. His genes, environment, culture, psychology that all contributes in forming a person's sexuality.

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    I don't like how people say that it's something you're born with, something genetical, it's not your choice you can't act differently or whatsoever, it's very offesive to me. It's like calling me a cripple for liking someone from the same sex, as if homosexuality was some kind of genetical perversity that people could fix or need to sympatize with. For me it's a choice, I chose to act upon my instincts and I'm not ashamed of it because it's MY choice, mine, I could chose to lie to myself and fit the norm like most of the closet gays in Arabic countries, but I don't want to I chose to act upon it.

    • 17-24_f_w_h2_f1
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      Sorry mate but you got the whole choice thing wrong. You are gay whether you act upon it or not.

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    • Your genes determine if you're gonna have blue or brown eyes, black or blond hair, be short or tall , fat or thin and they determine if you're gay or not

      so it's not a disability, it's just one of your characteristics as a unique human being
      what i said is you're gay whether you like it or not! The real choice here is whether you choose to live a homosexual life of not.

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  • 17-24_f_f_h3_f3
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    Oh choice really? So care to tell us the place of that switch you turned your Homosexuality on from please?

    Choosing to ACT on who you are and what you are is way different than choosing to be it in the very 1st place.

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