Are you HOMOSEXUAL by nature or is something you've chosen? By Anonymous Identity Twitter Follow Topic Thank Topic Thank Anonymous for this topic! Include a message A+ A- I really really really wonder. Were we born to be gays & lesbians or is it our urge? If it's a controlled thing why didn't we pick to be straight? Some of us are suffering out there. And if it's an "illness" is there any cure for it? *mind fucked* .